Momwe mungadzikondere nokha - malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo

Amadzidzimutsa kawirikawiri amai amakhala ndi chidwi ndi momwe angadzikondere okha, ndipo ngakhale malangizo a akatswiri a maganizo amasiyana, komabe ali ndi malingaliro angapo ofanana.

Kodi mungakhululukire bwanji ndikudzikonda nokha?

Choyamba, ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake kudzichepetsa ndi kudzipanda . Kawirikawiri, mavuto onse amabwera kuyambira ubwana, pamene makolo salandira zotsatira zoyenera kuchokera ku maphunziro awo ndi mawu osadziwika akhoza kuwononga psyche ya mwanayo. Pokhala wamkulu, iwo akhoza kudziwonetsera wokha mwa mawonekedwe osakonda ndi kudzikana wekha ngati umunthu woyenera. Nthaŵi zina kusadzikonda nokha kungakwiyitse ndi zolakwitsa zakale, zomwe munthu amakhala nazo nthawi zonse. Kuti muchotse kumverera uku muyenera kuphunzira kudzikhululukira nokha. Zakale ziyenera kukhala zakale. Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti simungasinthe, koma mukhoza kupanga zokongola ndi zamtsogolo, popanda kudandaula ndi kunyozedwa. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalimbikitsa kuti aiwale zolakwa zawo, makamaka ngati angathe kupha moyo. Ndipotu, momwe mungadzikondere nokha ndikuphunzira momwe mungakhalire osangalala ngati mumangodandaula zomwe mwachita. Muyenera kukhululukira zofooka zanu ndipo chikondi chidzabwera.

Malangizo a momwe mungadzikondere nokha mkazi

Kuti kusintha kuwonekere mkati, nkofunika kusintha ndi kunja. Kwa mkazi, izi zimapereka chifukwa china chodzikondera nokha. Choncho, mumayenera kudya, kuchita masewera kapena kuvina. Kuphatikiza pa chiwerengero cholimba, izi zibweretsa maganizo abwino omwe angakuthandizenso kusintha kwa maganizo m'maganizo. Malangizo abwino omwe mungadzipange nokha, ndikofunikira:

• zambiri pamper nokha;
• khalani maso pa mawonekedwe anu;
• dzipange nokha mphatso;
• kuchotsa gawo la wogwidwa;
• Lankhulani ndi inu nokha nthawi zambiri;
• mvetserani ku intuition yanu;
• dzidzike wekha;
• siyani kutsutsa ndikudandaula;
• Ganizirani zabwino zokhazokha.

Amayi ambiri amatha kuganizira kwambiri zofooka zawo ndipo nthawi zonse amawakumbukira. Uku ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu ndi kukumbutsa kukuwonongani kwa kupanda ungwiro kwanu. Choncho, akatswiri a maganizo amalinganiza kupanga mndandanda wa makhalidwe awo oipa ndikuyesera kuwonekeranso. Mwachitsanzo, kuyankhulana kungatembenuzidwe ku chikhalidwe cha makhalidwe abwino - kuyankhulana ndi chidwi, ndi kufulumira - polakalaka kuchita zonse mosamala, moyenera komanso mwabwino.

Malangizo a maganizo a momwe mungadzikondere nokha, ali ndi mfundo yofunika yokhudza kuti musadzifanizire nokha ndi wina. Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa ndi kukumbukira nthawi zonse kuti munthu aliyense ndiyekha. Ichi ndi chithumwa chonse. Azimayi ambiri amadzipangitsa okhaokha kuti azikhala nawo. Kotero, mwachitsanzo, anthu ambiri amafuna kukhala ndi chitsanzo cha kunja, koma kwenikweni, kukongola koteroku kumawoneka kuti sikunali kozizira komanso kozizira. Ndibwino kuti nthawi zonse mukhalebe nokha, osatsanzira ndikukopera munthu wina.

Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti ngati mkazi sangathe kudzikonda yekha, ndiye kuti ena sangamuchitire. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kudziwa chiyeso, kuti musasokoneze chikondi nokha ndi kudzikonda ndi kudzikweza. Akatswiri a zamaganizo onse amalandira egoism yathanzi yomwe sichitha malire a makhalidwe abwino.

Momwe mungadzikondere nokha - chivomerezo

Chivomerezo ndi mawu apadera omwe amathandiza kusintha maganizo, choncho, tsogolo. Ndi chithandizo cha lingaliro, mukhoza kusintha mtima wamkati ndikudzikonda nokha. Mawu amenewa ayenera kulembedwa momveka bwino ndipo sayenera kukhala ndi "osati". Kuti mutsimikizidwe kuti muchitepo kanthu, nkofunika kubwereza tsiku lililonse pamaso pa galasi kapena nokha, mukuyenda. Pali mndandanda wa mawu omwe angakuthandizeni kusintha maganizo anu ndi chikondi chanu, mwachitsanzo:

1. Ndine munthu waluso komanso waluso kwambiri.
2. Ine ndikudzivomereza ndekha momwe ine ndirili.
3. Ndimadzilemekeza ndekha pamaganizo ndi mfundo zanga m'moyo.
4. Ndimakonda ndikukondedwa.