Akatswiri a zamaganizo amatsutsa kuti mikangano ndizofunikira kwambiri pa chiyanjano chilichonse. Ndipo popanda iwo, kulankhulana sikutheka. Ndipotu, munthu aliyense, kaya mnzanu, bwenzi kapena wachibale ali ndi malingaliro ake, zofuna zake ndi zikhumbo zake, zomwe zingagwirizane ndi zofuna zanu. Kenaka mtsutso wosavuta ukhoza kukumana ndi vuto lalikulu ndikupitirizabe kukangana. Inde, njira yabwino - sikubweretsa ku izi. Ndipo ngati zonsezi zikuchitika - musayambe kutsutsana ndi mfundo yovuta ya "osabwerera", yomwe ingakhale ikutsatiridwa ndi kugonana kwathunthu. Choncho ndikofunikira kudziŵa malamulo a khalidwe mukumenyana. Chifukwa cha iwo, munthu aliyense amatha kulemekezedwa kuchokera ku zinthu zosasangalatsa komanso kukhalabe pa ubwenzi ndi ulemu kwa ena.
Malamulo Okhazikika Otsatila Nkhanza
Choyamba, simungathe kulowerera m'malingaliro. Malamulo a khalidwe lolimbikitsana mu nkhondoyi amadzipereka kuti adzisunge yekha. Ngakhale ngati mukuimbidwa mlandu umene simukulakwitsa, ngakhale mutatsutsidwa molakwika kapena mwatsutsika, musayambe kutaya nthunzi ndi kuyankha mwachidwi ndi kunyalanyaza.
- Lamulo loyambirira la khalidwe mukumenyana ndi: khalani wotsogolera wotsutsana mosayenerera. Yesani kukumbukira kuti mumamudziwa ndikungomuona ngati mlendo. Ndiye simudzapwetekedwa ndi mau ake osalungama. Ndipo musayesere kumuchitira chipongwe, iyi ndiyo njira yoipa kwambiri yothetsera vutoli.
- Lamulo lachiwiri la khalidwe mu mkangano likuti: musasokonezedwe pa nkhani yaikulu ya mkangano, musati muthamange pa chinthu china. Popanda kutero, kutsutsidwa kumodzi kudzakula monga snowball.
- Lamulo lachitatu: musataye chisangalalo chanu. Njoka imodzi yabwino ingathe kuthetsa mkangano wonse , kuupanga kukhala "wopanda magazi" ndipo osasiya kusokoneza.