Udindo wa mayi mu moyo wa mwanayo ndi kovuta kwambiri kuti umvetsetse. Pambuyo pake, mayi ndiye munthu wobadwira kwambiri, mkazi yemwe, makamaka, anabala ndipo analeredwa, ndipo anakhaladi bwenzi labwino kwambiri pa moyo. Amayi nthawi zonse amakhalapo, mukhoza kumudalira pa nthawi yovuta, samapereka. Koma kuzindikira kwa izi kumabwera, monga lamulo, kale pokhala wamkulu, pamene munthu ali kale ndi ana ake.
Ndipo panthawiyi, mayi aliyense amene ali ndi pakati amadziŵa momwe angakhalire ndi amayi ake abwino kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi, ndi zomwe amai ake ayenera kuchita kuti apeze chikondi ndi ulemu wake.
Kodi mayi wabwino ayenera kukhala wotani?
Kudziwa kukhala mayi wabwino, kumabwera paokha. Timangomva momwe tingakhalire ndi mwana, zomwe akufuna kuti tizimva kwa ife nthawi ina. Koma komabe, mkazi aliyense amatsutsidwa, makamaka pa nkhani yofunikira komanso yofunikira monga kulera ana.
Ndicho chifukwa chake ndikofunika kudzipangira nokha mfundo zofunika zomwe muyenera kutsatira nthawi zonse, kuti muthe kukwaniritsa udindo wanu monga amayi mu banja popanda kuganizira kwambiri ndi kukhumudwa.
- Kusamalira mwanayo ayenera kuyamba asanabadwe. Lankhulani ndi iye, werengani mokweza, kuimba nyimbo ndipo, chofunikira kwambiri, kulimbikitsa chikondi chamkati mwa iye, kakang'ono ndi kofunika!
- Musamangokonda khungu, komanso muzilemekeza mwana wanu monga munthu. Izi ndizovuta kwa amayi ena, koma ndizovomerezeka. Ana amamva bwino momwe amachitira, ndipo chisamaliro chochuluka kwa nthawi chimayamba kuyeza. M'malo mwake, mupatseni mwana wanu ufulu wambiri kuti aphunzire kukhala wamkulu.
- Kulera mwana molondola, kumuphunzitsa momwe angachitire, ndipo bwanji, nthawi zina timachita chilango. Kumulanga mwana molondola, kukhala wolimba, koma mwachilungamo nthawi yomweyo. Musaganize, kuti mwanayo amanyazitsidwa kapena, moipa kwambiri, sakondedwa. Fotokozani kwa iye kuti anachita choipa, koma simunasiye kumukonda. Komanso funsani mwana kumukhululukira ngati kuli kofunikira.
- Kutsimikiza kopanda kukayikira! Yesetsani kuti muzitsatira nthawi zonse zochitika zosiyanasiyana za chitukuko cha zochitika (izi zikukhudzana ndi thanzi ndi chitukuko
ana). Ngati mukudziwa zomwe zikhoza kuchitika posachedwapa, mutha kukhala odzidalira, ndipo izi ndi zofunika kwambiri. - Kulankhulana ndi mwana wanu nthawi zambiri momwe zingathere. Ngakhale mutakhala ndi ntchito, yesetsani kupeza nthawi yolankhulana, zomwe zili zofunika kwa mwana aliyense! Musatulutse mafunso a pokachki wanu wamng'ono, musanyalanyaze zokambirana zake ndi zopempha zake. Kuyankhulana kwathunthu ndikofunika kwa ubale uliwonse wabwino.
Mkazi aliyense akhoza kuthana ndi udindo wa amayi pakuleredwa kwa ana. Ndipotu, kukhala mayi wabwino, monga lamulo, sikovuta. Chikondi, ulemu ndi chisamaliro - ndipo zonse zidzatha!