Chidziwitso cha chinyengo, momwe mungazindikire chinyengo ndi wachinyengo chidzakhala chokondweretsa kwa iwo amene akufuna kuphunzira kuzindikira anthu omwe ali ofanana. Mkhalidwe wotero ukhoza kuwuka mu moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku - mu kampani, m'banja, kuntchito. Pa nthawi imodzimodziyo, nkofunika kukopa chidwi cha munthu kuti asakhale wosangalatsa komanso nthawi zina amasonyeza makhalidwe ake.
Kodi chinyengo n'chiyani?
Mchitidwe woterewu, monga chinyengo, ndi mtundu wina wa kudziwonetsera. Titha kusiyanitsa mbali zina za khalidwe la chinyengo:
- ili ndi kudzipereka kwachiwonetsero ku malingaliro auzimu opanda chikhulupiriro chowona mwa iwo;
- kawirikawiri anthu oterowo amatha kunyengedwa;
- amasonyeza kuti zochita zawo sizinasangalatse, zomwe sizigwirizana ndi zenizeni;
- panthawi imodzimodzi, zopempha zowonjezereka zimayikidwa pa iwo ozungulira, zomwe sizikuwonedwa ndi wachinyengo mwiniwakeyo.
Nthawi zambiri, mawonetseredwe a chinyengo akhoza kubisala:
- kusakhulupirika kwa ena;
- kusamala pochita ndi anthu;
- chilakolako chofuna kusintha makhalidwe ena.
Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa chinyengo ndi chinyengo?
Maganizo a chinyengo ndi chinyengo ndi ofunikira kwambiri, koma pali kusiyana pakati pawo. Kotero:
- Chinyengo ndi mtundu wa khalidwe lodzikonda, chiwerewere, chilakolako cha kubisa zolinga zenizeni zopezera kapena kukondwera.
- Hanness, monga chinyengo, amaphimba makhalidwe oipa komanso osayamika ndi chigoba chabwino, koma pamene amasankha kutsatira zinthu za uzimu , kukana dyera ndi manyazi.
Hanseism ndi tsankho
Kufunsa funso lachinthu chachinyengo, munthu akhoza kupeza yankho - ndi munthu wonyenga, wodzudzula ena ndikuphimba ndi khalidwe lachiyero ndi makhalidwe abwino. Pali lingaliro lakuti kutsutsa kotero ndi tsankho. Nthaŵi zina, chinyengo chingakhale chitetezo chokhudza mphamvu ya anthu oyandikana nawo, kukakamizidwa kwake, kutengera maganizo a wina.
Sikuti aliyense angathe kuthana ndi chikoka cha kunja, kuteteza maganizo awo. Kuonjezera apo, anthu ambiri sakhulupirira ena, zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala osabisala, osamala - choncho chilakolako chowoneka bwino komanso chosadzikonda, zomwe zimakhala zovuta kuchita.
Momwe mungazindikire bigot?
Zimatengedwa kuti wonyenga ndi munthu amene amatsatira mfundo zobisala zochitika zake ndi malingaliro ake kuti adzivomereze ndi kukhutira ndi zomwe akufunira. Mukhoza kusiyanitsa mbali zina za anthu awa:
- Kwachidule, pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa mawu ndi zochita zenizeni;
- amayamba kunyenga kapena kukokomeza makhalidwe awo ndi zochita zawo;
- onyenga amadziyika okha monga othandizira umulungu, ukoma, uzimu ndi makhalidwe;
- khalidwe lawo nthawi zambiri limasonyeza, amakonda kusewera poyera;
- nthawi zina khalidwe ili likhoza kuwerengedwera kudzilungamitsa.
Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale osamala?
Mdziko, vuto la chinyengo si malo otsiriza. Anthu omwe ali ndi zikhulupiriro zofanana ndi makhalidwe omwe amatsutsana ndi makhalidwe abwino nthawi zambiri amawoneka kuti alibe tsankho, nthawi zina khalidwe lawo limanyalanyazidwa ndi anthu. Ngati tifunika kutsimikizira kuti zikhalidwe zomwe zimakhala za bigot ndizopatulira, chinyengo komanso kudzipereka, ndiye kuti choyamba ndiyambe kuyamba ntchito kuthetsa iwo. Mukhoza kuyesa kuchotsa khalidwe lanu mfundo izi:
- Ndibwino kuti asiye kusewera pagulu;
- afotokoze maganizo awo popanda kubisala kapena kuzisunga, mosasamala kanthu kuti zikugwirizana ndi maganizo a ena kapena ayi;
- ndikofunika kufufuza zochita zanu, osati kukambirana kapena kutsutsa ena;
- chofunika pakukonza khalidwe loyeretsa kudzakhala kukhoza kusunga mawu a munthu, kuonetsetsa kuti sichigwirizana ndi mlandu;
- Ntchito yayikulu ya wachinyengo idzakhala yakukana chinyengo, chinyengo ndi kutsutsidwa kwa anthu ena.
Choipa ndi chiyani - chinyengo kapena kusayera?
Kuyerekezera makhalidwe ofanana ndi umunthu n'kofunika kumvetsetsa momwe iwo alili. Kuchita zonyansa kumatanthawuza kusanyalanyaza ndi khalidwe lachiwerewere ku miyambo ndi miyambo ya chikhalidwe, kusonyeza kusatsata kutsatizana ndi miyambo ya chikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe chovomerezeka. Mosiyana ndi chinyengo, kudzikweza kumawonetsera ndemanga, momveka bwino malingaliro anu popanda chinyengo ndi chinyengo.
Yankho lachidziwitso ku funso la khalidwe lomwe lidzakhala loipitsitsa - loyeretsa kapena lachinyengo, kulibe. Ambiri amaganiza kuti palibe choyamba kapena chachiwiri chovomerezeka pakati pa anthu. Ziribe kanthu kaya chinyengo kapena chidziwitso chachinyengo ndi chitsanzo cha chinyengo, ndipo kusakondweretsa ndi kusasamala malamulo a makhalidwe abwino, ndipo zonsezi ndi zotsatira za chiwerewere ndi kukana miyambo ya chikhalidwe, yomwe siilandiridwa kuti pakhale chitukuko cha anthu abwino komanso okhwima.
Chinyengo cha Orthodox
Mpingo umalola munthu kukhala pafupi ndi Mulungu, amapereka mpata wa kukula kwauzimu ndi kusankha njira ya moyo. Kusunga miyambo ndi zolembazo ndi kusankha kwa aliyense payekha. Chinyengo chachipembedzo chimalowetsa kusunga mwakuya malamulo a tchalitchi mwa kuonetsera konyenga kwa kuwatsatira. Khanja amaoneka ngati wopembedza, wopanda dyera, ngakhale nthawi zambiri sakhala.
Chinyengo chotero sichimubweretsa munthu pafupi ndi Mulungu, samamulemekeza, ndipo nthawi zina amatero. Osati khalidwe labwino kwambiri ndi chinyengo, ndipo khalidwe la kunyengerera nthawi zambiri limakwiyitsa anthu. Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti nthawi zotere siziyenera kusowa pokhala ndi ana, koma mosiyana ayenera kuyankhula moona mtima, kukoma mtima ndi kukhulupirika.