Ndi anthu ochepa chabe amene angakonde ulendo wopitilira wa mwamuna wake, nkhawa zonsezi podikirira zimatopa kwambiri. Koma amuna athu ali osiyana wina ndi mzake mosavuta, popeza kuti kubwezeretsa kwa mwamuna ku ulendo wamalonda kumakhala kosangalatsa kwambiri, kukumana naye? Inde, malangizowo aliwonse angakhale othandizira, monga banja lililonse liri ndi zinthu zazing'ono zomwe zimapereka ulemu.
Momwe mungakumanire ndi mwamuna ku ulendo wamalonda?
Kuyenda maulendo a mwamuna wake kungayambitse mavuto aakulu, koma amangochita zokha kuti azisamalira banja. Choncho, pamsonkhano wa mwamuna kuchokera paulendo ndikofunika kumusonyeza momwe mumayamikirira zonse zomwe amachita. Ndipo chifukwa cha izi ndikofunika kupanga zinthu zabwino kwambiri kuti abwerere. Ganizirani zomwe zidzafunike kwa mwamuna wanu, momwe mungamudabwitse ndikumusangalatsa pambuyo pa ulendo wamalonda. Ndipo tsopano yang'anani malingaliro anu ndi maso a munthu wotopa, omwe mumakonda, ndipo sankhani zomwe ayenera kuchita, ndi zomwe muyenera kukana. Ndizomveka kuganiza kuti ngakhale munthu wovuta kwambiri atayenda ulendo wautali adzakondwera kwambiri ndi chakudya chokoma chokongoletsera, kusamba kutsuka komanso bedi loyera. Choncho, pokhudzana ndi kugonana kwa mwamuna wake kuchokera muulendo wa bizinesi kuli koyenera kuiwala, kufikira atapumula. Koma, ndithudi, muyenera kulingalira za tsatanetsatane wa ulendo. Mwachitsanzo, wokondedwa wanu amabwerera m'mawa ndipo osatopa kwambiri, bwanji osamukonzera chibwenzi? Pangani ndondomeko ku nyumbayo polemba pa mivi motsatira ndondomeko ya zochita zake. Kumalo aliwonse, konzekerani zodabwitsa .
Ngati pali ana, ndiye kuti mungathe kuwagwiritsa ntchito pokonzekera msonkhano - aloleni kuti awathandize kuphika keke, kupanga nyuzipepala yamakono kapena khoma kumene imanena momwe inu nonse mumasangalalira kubwerera kwake. Ngati mwamunayo abwera kunyumba usiku, ndiye kuti ndibwino kumangobweretsera zodabwitsa zake zonse
Ngati simukuganiza za momwe mungakumanane ndi mwamuna kuchokera ku bizinesi, koma chomwe mungamudabwe mutatha kusiyana, yesetsani kusintha chinachake mwa inu nokha. Mwachitsanzo, kusintha kalembedwe ka tsitsi, kuchepetsa kulemera kwa kufika kwa mwamuna kapena kuyesa fano latsopano. Yesetsani kuti musasinthe kwambiri, mwinamwake kudabwa kungakhale kosasangalatsa - mwamuna akufuna kuyanjana ndi munthu wokhalapo, ndipo osati ndi mlendo mosayembekezereka anawuka mnyumba yake.