Amuna olimba mtima amene amayi amawakonda, amodzi awo, chiyembekezo ndi chithandizo, samakhalanso ndi miyala yamtengo wapatali. Ndipo mantha amalingaliro omwe ali nawo osachepera kugonana kwa akazi.
Kuopa amuna
Funso la amayi omwe amawopa amuna ndilokwanira mokwanira. Amuna osiyana, ndi maganizo osiyana maganizo, amawopa akazi osiyanasiyana. Munthu wolemera amaopa akazi osawuka, chifukwa amaganiza kuti sakonda ake, koma thumba lake; Amuna owongoka amawopa akazi olimba kwambiri; akhama komanso osangalatsa samakonda ofooka, omwe angakhale pamphesi yawo ndi mwala. Aliyense ali ndi mantha ake.
Kufooka kapena mphamvu?
Funsolo ndi lochititsa chidwi, chifukwa chake anthu amawopa akazi okongola, pambuyo pake, zikuwoneka, ziyenera kukhala zosiyana. Chifukwa chachikulu mu maphunziro. Kuyambira ali mwana, kamnyamata kamene kamva - osasankha zokongola: adzakhala waulesi, wodzikonda, komanso adzayenda. Mkazi weniweni adzakhala khungu lokha. Ambiri amamvetsa bwino malangizo a makolo. Koma iwo omwe amakhala mmaganizo awo, nawonso amawopa okongola.
Akafunsidwa chifukwa chake amantha amai olimba, ndi zosavuta kuti ayankhe. Zimafotokozedwa mwachidule: mnyamatayo amaleredwa makamaka ndi amayi: amayi, agogo, aphunzitsi, aphunzitsi. Anali akuzoloŵera kumvetsera ndi kusamala za nkhope zazimayi kuyambira ali mwana. Sizinali zonse zomwe zinali zoyenera zokoma mtima komanso kudzichepetsa.
Mfundo yakuti amuna ambiri amaopa akazi okongola ndizoona. Koma chinthu chachikulu chimene munthu aliyense akuwopa ndicho kukanidwa. Mkazi wokongola akhoza kuonongeka kapena kukhala wotanganidwa ndi munthu "ozizira". Iye anali kale ndi okonda, iye akuganiza kuti iwo angakhoze kuchoka kwa iwo ndipo zofunikira zake zikhoza kukhala zovuta. Akhoza kufuna chibwenzi chokongola ndi chokhalitsa, ndipo nthawi zambiri vuto lake ndi iye, ndithudi, ndi lalikulu kwambiri kuposa mkazi wamba.
Kukhumudwa kumachitika ngati mkazi ali bwana; ngati atalandira zambiri kuposa iye; ngati iye ali wopambana kwambiri kuposa iye, iye wapindula kwambiri mu moyo; odziwa zambiri kuposa iye; ali ndi ana kuchokera kumkwati wakale kuposa momwe ife tikufunira. Mwachidziwikire, munthu aliyense amaopa kuti aperekedwa ndipo palibe mkazi woopa kuti asiye.