Atsikana ambiri, makamaka ali achinyamata, akuyang'ana m'maloto awo pofuna yankho la funso: "Momwe mungakhalire wolemera ndi wotchuka?". Ndi zomveka komanso moyo wokongola womwe ndimafuna kwa onse. Chabwino, tiyeni tiyambe kuganizira za momwe anthu ambiri amatchuka, ndiyeno tiwone njira zomwe zingathandize omwe maloto awo aunyamata sanalowemo.
Tonse tinamva nkhani zambiri (chifukwa cha mafilimu a mitundu yonse) za momwe nyenyezi zathu zakhala zotchuka. Wina anachotsa ndalama kwa makolo (wothandizira), wina ankakonda wopanga (woyang'anira, mkonzi, etc.), ndi wina, akugunda mapazi (ndipo nthawizina pamphumi mwake) kulowa mwazi wogogoda pazipata zonse, kwenikweni ndikudzidzimangira malo pansi pa dzuwa. Ena anali ndi mwayi wokhala pamalo abwino pa nthawi yoyenera, ndipo adatha kugonjetsa talente wawo munthu woyenera. Aliyense ali ndi nkhani yake yokha, yosangalatsa ndi yophunzitsira mwa njira yake, ndipo kuchokera ku mbiri ya "stellar" yotereyi n'zotheka kupirira chinthu chokha.
Kodi mungatchulidwe bwanji?
Kotero, momwe mungakhalire wolemera ndi wotchuka, kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani? Nazi mndandanda wa njira. Sichiletsedwa kuyesa iwo, ngati si onse, ndiye otsimikizika ochepa, m'modzi mwa milanduyo ali ndi mwayi.
- Njira yayitali komanso yotsalira kwambiri ndiyo kukhazikitsa njira yosankhidwa. Pezani maphunziro mwa kulembetsa ku yunivesite yaku Moscow ku chisankho chosankhidwa. Panthawi yophunzitsidwa, pangani chithunzi chowonekera ndi chodabwitsa kuti muzimvetsera. Ndiyeno zaka zolimbikira ntchito ndi zochepa zolemekezeka ndi kupambana.
- Posachedwapa, mawonedwe osiyanasiyana ndi kusankha matalente aang'ono akhala otchuka kwambiri. Inde, munganene kuti malo amtengo wapita kale ndipo simungakhale nawo mwayi. Ndipo mukhoza kunena ndi kuganiza mochuluka momwe mumakondera, koma kupita kukaponyera kuli koyenera, makamaka pofuna kupanga anzanu atsopano pakati pa akatswiri ndi ofalitsa. Ndipo mwinamwake mudzakhala ndi mwayi, ndipo talente yanu idzayamikiridwa ndi anthu onse oitanidwa.
- Kuti mupeze munthu yemwe ali ndi chidwi ndi luso lanu, muyenera kukhala nawo odziwa bwino. Gwiritsani anzanu, anthu omwe mumadziwana nawo komanso anthu osadziwika bwino kuti "mumange matabwa" m'deralo.
- Kodi mukutsimikiza za talente yanu? Kenako mukhoza kuyesa nokha, kujambula nyimbo zanu (kupanga mbiri yanu, etc.) ndi kuzungulira malo opanga katundu (mabungwe oyimira) nawo. Pamapeto pake, mumapeza mwayi wowonetsera talente yanu ndizokhazikika.
- Tili otsimikiza kuti aliyense angathe kusokonezeka, ngati pali talente yonse ya chinthu chopanda pake, chinthu chofunikira ndikudziwa momwe? Kotero ndani akukulepheretsani kudziwa izi? Mukungoyenera kukhala wopanga, komanso monga diploma polojekiti kuti musadziwe nokha.
- Ponseponse paliponse zomwe zimasankhidwa ndi ndalama, zinali, ndi nthawi zonse. Ngati mukuganiza choncho, ndiye njira imodzi yokha ndiyo kupeza wothandizira. Sitikujambula chithunzi cha msungwana wopusa yemwe amakhulupirira kuti kwa mausiku angapo akhala naye, adzakhala "nyenyezi". Izi siziri choncho, koma zikutanthawuza wopereka chithandizo yemwe angakhulupirire kuti polojekiti yanu idzafunidwa, kuti talente yanu ndi ndalama zopindulitsa komanso zopindulitsa. Koma apa ndi kofunika kupenta bwino kwambiri
Ndondomeko ya bizinesi ya polojekiti yanu kotero kuti wogwira ntchitoyo akuwone kuti ndi kofunikira kuti ndikugwiritse ntchito ndalama zanu mwa inu. - Chitsanzo cha nyenyezi za kumadzulo, Justin Bieber. Pitirizani pa intaneti pa zochitika zawo pa malo owonedwa kwambiri, mwinamwake mudzawona "nyenyezi" ndi kupereka mwayi wawo.
- Musatsanzire wina aliyense, ngakhale mwa kachitidwe, kapenanso kavalidwe. Mudziko la masampampu, anthu otsutsa amayamikiridwa kwambiri, amapereka chinachake chatsopano, chinachake chimene china chilimbikitso kapena talente zinasowa.
- Dzikhulupirireni nokha, kukhala ndi chidaliro chachikulu pamene mukuwonetsera luso lanu, chizindikiro chirichonse chiyenera kunena kuti mumadziwa kale kugonjetsa anthu.
Popeza mutasankha kukhala wotchuka, pitani kumapeto, musataye mtima. Ndiyeno chipiriro chanu chidzapindula ndithu.