Mwamuna akasiya banja, akazi ambiri amayamba kufunafuna chifukwa cha kudzipangira okha ndikudzipangira okha. Inde, kufufuza ubale wanu, kufunafuna zolakwa mwa iwo ndikuyesera kuwongolera, ndi chinthu choyenera, chomwe, ndithudi, chidzagwiritsidwa ntchito. Choncho, musanamupemphe munthu kuti abwerere, akumuwonetsa ndi malonjezano, muyenera kuima ndikudikirira kuti mumvetsetse. Panthawi imeneyi ndibwino kuti musamuimbire munthu, osati kuyang'ana misonkhano komanso kuti musadzikumbutse nokha. Mwinamwake mwamunayo posachedwa amva kuti amamuphonya kwenikweni mkazi wake ndi kumamukonda, ndipo kuchoka kwake kwa kanthaŵi kochepa ndi chikhumbo chophweka chokhalira moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, kusamvetsetsana kapena mikangano. Koma ngati izi sizichitika, muyenera kuyesa kubwezeretsa.
Bwanji ngati mwamuna wachoka m'banja?
Choyamba, tiyeni tiyankhule za zomwe simuyenera kuchita:
- ndikupempha munthuyo kuti abwerere;
- Lero, lirani, ndi kulira patsogolo pake;
- Yesetsani kudzidodometsa nokha ndi chithandizo cha mabuku atsopano.
Monga mutenga nthawi pang'ono mutatha, mukufunika kufunsa mwamuna wanu za msonkhano. Ndikofunika kuti mkazi am'konzekerere osati kunja kokha, komanso akhale ndi maganizo abwino. Kusunga bata ndi kudziletsa ndikofunika kwambiri, ngati kulira ndi misonzi kungathe kuopseza aliyense. Mwinamwake, ndikofunikira kusintha fano: makonzedwe atsopano, tsitsi la tsitsi, kusintha kwa zovala. Zonsezi zingachititse chidwi cha munthu. Kenaka, tiyeni tikambirane za momwe tingabwerere mwamuna yemwe adachoka:
- Uzani mwamuna wanu za momwe mumamvera . Popanda chinyengo, finesse ndi kusaona mtima.
- Pepesani chifukwa cha khalidwe lanu ngati silikugwirizana ndi malingaliro a mwamuna pa mkazi wabwino.
- Funsani mkaziyo kuti apatsenso mwayi wina wopulumutsa banja.
Mwamuna wanga anapita kwa mbuye wake - momwe angabwerere?
Ngati mwamunayo apita kwa mkazi wina, ndiye kuti sakusangalala ndi banja lake. Monga momwe chiwonetsero chimasonyezera, amuna samachoka kumene amakhala omasuka. Mwina kudandaula nthawi zonse, kunyozedwa, kunyozedwa kumamukakamiza kutero. Inde, palibe amene amatsutsa munthu pa nkhaniyi. Koma, ngati mkaziyo amamukonda kwambiri, ndiye kuti muyese kubwezera ndi njira zonse zomwe zilipo.
Bweretsani mwamuna yemwe anapita kwa wina, mungathe kumuchititsa nsanje , chifukwa munthu aliyense ali mwiniwake, ndipo kuona ngakhale mkazi wakale akuzunguliridwa ndi okondedwa ake sakusangalatsa kwake. Mwinamwake, iye atenga zowonetsera kuti abwererenso malo a mkazi wake.
Yesani kukhala bwenzi la mnzanuyo. Pezani zofuna zodziwika, zithandizani. Koma palibe chifukwa chake musamuyankhe mnzanu watsopano. Munthu sangakhoze kukhululukira izi. Misonkhano yanu iliyonse ikhale yabwino. Musayese kumupangitsa iye kumverera
Mwamuna anapita kwa wina - choti achite?
Ndikofunika kwambiri nthawi ino kuti musataye mtima, kwezani kudzidalira kwanu ndikupitiriza kusangalala ndi moyo. Dzizisamalire nokha, chitukuko chanu chauzimu, maonekedwe anu, ana. Gwirani ntchito kuti musokoneze. Odziwa atsopano, kuphunzira ntchito zina, kuyenda - ndizo zonse zomwe zingakhale ndi phindu pa maonekedwe ndi maganizo a mkazi. Ngati mwamunayo sangabwerere, muzimufunira zabwino ndikumulola apite. Kumbukirani nthawi zonse kuti simudzakakamiza chikondi.