Ukwati ndi wosamvetsetseka, ndipo pa nthawi yomweyo kuunikiridwa. Ndiko kusintha kwa umunthu. Sakramenti ya ukwati imathandiza kupeza moyo watsopano kwa munthu, masomphenya atsopano a moyo wake. Pothandizidwa ndi banja, okwatirana amadziwana bwino. Moyo ndi chidziwitsochi zimapereka chikhutiro chokwanira ndi kukwanira kwathunthu, kudzera mmenemo timakhala olemera mwauzimu ndikukhala anzeru.
Sakramenti yaukwati ndiukwati, pamene wansembe ndi mkwati ali omangidwa ndi malumbiro a chigololo.
Ukwati ndi chinsinsi cha chikondi. Chifukwa mphamvu yowongoka ndi yolenga ya ukwati weniweni ndi chikondi. Ndi kovuta kufotokoza kumverera uku. Pokhapokha ngati munthu amakonda, kodi amamvetsa chomwe chiri, chomwe chiri chinsinsi cha chikondi. Amamverera ndi moyo wake wonse, ndi mtima wake wonse. Chikondi chimayamba pamene muyamba kuona moyo wa wokondedwa wanu. N'zosadabwitsa kuti Metropolitan Anthony wa Sourozh analemba kuti kumverera uku sikumangomverera chabe, ndi "chikhalidwe chonse." Sakramenti ya chikondi kwa munthu imabwera panthawi yomwe mumayang'ana, osati kufuna kukhala nayo kapena kuigonjetsa. Inu mulibe chikhumbo choti muzichigwiritsa ntchito mwanjira iliyonse. Muyenera kuyamikira kukongola kwa thupi ndi kwauzimu kwa osankhidwa anu.
Chikondi chenicheni chiyenera kukhala ndi maziko olimba kuti athe kulimbana ndi mphepo yamphamvu ya mayesero ndi kukula kuposa zidzukulu zam'badwo umodzi. Kotero chinsinsi cha ukwati ndi chimodzi mwa zigawo za maziko olimba awa.
Ukwati, monga chikondi wokha, sukuperekedwa mophweka, nthawi zonse ndi kofunika kuthana ndi mavuto omwe adayamba, koma ndi kosavuta kuchita palimodzi. Mwachitsanzo, tchalitchi chimatchula ukwati monga sukulu yachikondi, monga chikondi, osati mgwirizano wa anthu ogwirizana.
Ndipo nkofunika kukumbukira onse awiriwa ndi omwe akukonzekera kuti ayambe nthawi yatsopano pamoyo wawo, sitiyenera kuiwala kuti ngati mutasankha kulumikiza moyo wanu ndi munthu, ndiye kuti sukuluyi muyenera kuyendamo.