Zifukwa zomwe zogulitsa zolaula zimagwiritsidwa ntchito mosavuta: kugonana ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri pamoyo wathu. Komabe, anthu amaona zolaula pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana. Winawake amathandiza kuthetsa mavuto a kugonana, wina akuyang'ana kudzoza, ndipo ena amawonerera ojambula zithunzi kuti aziseka. Komabe, ngati munthu akuganiza kuti sangathe kukhala popanda chizoloŵezi choonera zolaula, ndiye kuti mwayi wake ndi wakuti akudwala porno.
Tiyeni tiyambe ndi zomwe zolaula zili. Izi ndi matenda okhudza maganizo omwe munthu amamva kuti amadalira kuwona zithunzi zolaula ndi / kapena mavidiyo. Pali kusiyana komweko nthawi zambiri, ndipo, ndithudi, makamaka pakati pa amuna ammudzi. Kukhala wokhutira kwenikweni pa kugonana sikuti nthawi zonse kumakhudza zolaula, ndipo nthawi zambiri amai ogonana amadabwa pozindikira kuti amuna awo amabweretsa mwachinsinsi mafoda awo obisika. Ndipo, ndithudi, ali ndi funso lomveka m'maganizo mwawo: chifukwa chiyani anthu amavutika ndi zolaula, ndipo pali mankhwala othandiza.
Zifukwa za zolaula
Chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri munthu amafuna kutsegula magazini yolakalaka kapena malo sizinayambe mu zilakolako zake zokhazokha (ngakhale izi zimachitika mu zida zonyansa zolaula). Monga lamulo, pornophilia amatha kuyambira ali mwana, pamene mwanayo sanalandire chikondi chokwanira kapena anali osadziwika bwino. Kuonjezera apo, zithunzi zolaula zimakhudza anthu ambiri komanso anthu otsekemera.
Kuchiza kwa pornophilia
Chithandizo cha pornophilia n'chofunika, chifukwa choletsedwa kuonera zolaula kumapangitsa kuti munthu azikhumudwa kwambiri komanso kuti azichita zachiwawa. Thandizo la katswiri ndilofunika, osati mankhwala okhaokha, psychoanalysis, komanso njira zamaganizo. Kukonzekera kwamagetsi kumagwiritsidwa ntchito mwakhama kuti zikhazikike m'maganizo.
Pang'onopang'ono munthu amapeza mgwirizano: ndi malingaliro ake, anthu oyandikana nawo ndi ogonana nawo. Moyo wake umakhala wolemera ndi wowala.