Kuyambira kuwerenga bukulo, zinandiwoneka ngati poyamba. Chaputala choyamba chimanena kuti anthu omwe amakhulupirira kuti "n'zosavuta kuti asatenge nsomba kuchokera m'nyanja" - akwaniritse bwino ndikukhala osangalala. Chaputala chachiwiri chimayamba nkhani yofanana ...
Chotsatira chake, bukuli linaposa zonse zomwe ndikuyembekeza - powerenga ndikuwerenga, ndikuwonjezeranso kumvetsetsa momwe chikhalidwe cha kukula ndi kudzikulira, komanso momwe zimakhudzira moyo wa anthu onse. Mawu omwe ali m'bukuli ayenela kuwerengedwa - kuchokera pazolowera komanso pamapeto pake, ngakhale kuti zonsezi ndizochitika. Nthawi ina ndinkakhulupirira kuti muzovuta zonse za moyo ndinatsatila kuzinthu zamtundu uwu, koma bukhuli limakhudza mbali zambiri za moyo wanga pamene sindingaganize kuti ndaganiza mosiyana.
Ganizirani mfundo zazikulu za m'bukuli:
- Anthu amawonekeratu zinthu zomwe zikuchitika kwa iwo kudzera mu ndende ya maganizo awiri-kukhazikitsidwa kwa kukula ndi kukhazikitsidwa kwapatsidwa.
- Kuika malo mopepuka kumapangitsa kuti dziko lapansi liwonetseke pa malo a "anzeru-opusa", "wothamanga-zahdyklik", "wopambana."
Kukhazikitsa kukula kumatanthauza kuti mukamagwiritsa ntchito khama lanu, mukhoza kukwaniritsa chilichonse ndikukhala aliyense. Palibe opambana ndi otayika - alipo omwe amaphunzira ndi omwe saphunzira. - Mayesero amapereka mpata wokula. Kuopa kutaya, kulephera, kapena kulakwitsa kumapangitsa kukhala kosatheka. Kawirikawiri anthu amasankha ntchito zosavuta kuti "asanyengedwe", chifukwa ntchito zosavuta n'zovuta kutaya.
- Omwe amalowetsa pakhomopo pokhapokha ngati akulephera kulephera kuimbidwa mlandu, kotero kuti asatengedwe ngati "wotaya." Iwo akuyang'ana iwo omwe ali ndi zinthu zoipitsitsa ndi kudzidzipangitsa okha chifukwa cha kulephera kwa ena. Kupambana kwa anthu omwe ali pafupi nawo kumakhala koopsya kwaookha.
- Simungathe kutamanda anthu chifukwa cha luso lawo, komanso chifukwa cha ntchito yofulumira komanso yopanda pake. Zimenezi zimapangitsa kuti chitukuko chisawonongeke. Munthu amene amakhulupirira kuti chilichonse chiyenera kuperekedwa kwa iye mosavuta ndi mosakayikira adzapewa ntchito zovuta, mwinamwake sadzakhalanso talente.
- Ubale uliwonse ukufuna ntchito ndi chitukuko. Cholakwika chofunika kwambiri pa chiyanjano, taganizirani kuti "ngati ubale uyenera kugwira ntchito - si mwamuna wanga."
- Ana amazindikira malemba ndi mawu ndi machitidwe kuyambira adakali ana. Muyenera kufunsa mafunso abwino, kutamanda ndi kutsutsa - mwinamwake mwanayo adzakhala m'ndende ya kuikidwa kwapatsidwa.
Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito maganizo anu pa moyo wanu kuchokera kumbali ya zochitika za moyo, mukhoza kupeza tebulo ili:
| Kukhazikitsa Zoperekedwa | Kuyika kwa kukula |
| Zimatsogolera ku chikhumbo chowoneka kuti ndi anzeru, chifukwa iwo amakonda: | Zimatsogolera ku chikhumbo cha kuphunzira, chifukwa zimakonda: |
| Kuyesedwa | |
| Pewani kuyesedwa | Yesetsero Wokondedwa |
| Zosokoneza | |
| Gwiritsani ntchito ngati zifukwa kapena kudzipereka mosavuta kwa iwo | Sonyezani kupirira ngakhale kuti mukulephera |
| Mayesero | |
| Kuganizira zoyesayesa zopanda phindu: kuyesetsa kwambiri - zochepa zofunikira | Kuzindikira zoyesayesa monga njira yopezera masewera |
| Kudzudzula | |
| Sinthani ndemanga zothandiza koma zoipa | Phunzirani ku kutsutsidwa |
| Kupambana kwa ena | |
| Dziwone ngati mukuwopsyeza nokha | Kuphunzira ndi kudzoza kuchokera kwa ena opambana |
Ndikupangira buku kwa aliyense. Zikuwoneka ngati zinthu za banal zikufotokozedwa mu zitsanzo zoterozo komanso pazimene zingathe kuphunzitsa zambiri. Kwa aphunzitsi, makolo ndi makosi, m'maganizo anga, bukhuli liyenera kukhala desktop.
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