Chilankhulo chilichonse chili ndi mawu ambirimbiri. Ndiye, kodi mawu osokoneza mawu amatuluka kuti? Tiyeni titembenuzire ku chiyambi.
Mawu-zowonongeka ndi mawu a chilankhulo. Iwo adakhazikika mwamasulidwe a munthu, sanalowe mukulankhula zokha, komanso kukhala chizoloŵezi. Mawu a parasites samatanthauza kanthu nkomwe. Awa ndi mau opanda kanthu-namsongole, ayenera kuwatsata. Munthu amene amagwiritsira ntchito mawu ngati amenewa sawazindikira, amagwiritsidwa ntchito. Komabe, mawu olira amalepheretsa kumvetsetsa ndi kuzindikira malankhulidwe, komanso amatopetsa interlocutor.
Pamene zolankhula zinayambira, kulankhula kwapasitoriya kunayambanso. Pang'onopang'ono, kuika mawu kunadzaza ndi kuchulukitsa chiwerengero cha ozunzidwa athu.
Zomwe zimayambitsa kugwiritsa ntchito mawu-zizindikiro
- mawu osakwanira. Anthu ophunzitsidwa pang'ono amavutika chifukwa cha kukhalapo kwa mawu-namsongole nthawi zambiri. Ngakhale pali zosiyana;
- wothamanga kwambiri wa kuganiza. Pamene munthu sangathe kuyenda mofulumira ndi kupeza mawu olondola, nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito zizindikiro za tizilombo toyambitsa matenda. Izi zimadziwika kwa aliyense: "Eee," "A," "Mmm." Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti zizindikiro zotere zimakwiyitsa kwambiri ndi "kudula" mphekesera;
- kugwiritsa ntchito mwadala mawu achinsinsi. Kwa wina, njira iyi yolankhulirana ndi gawo la fano, chithunzi. Palinso anthu omwe amaika mawu a parasitic mwachindunji, ndipo zimakhala zoyenera;
- kufotokoza chikhalidwe cha umunthu. Kugwiritsiridwa ntchito kwa mawu ena osamvetseka kumatha kunena kanthu za munthu. Ngati mawu oti "tizilombo" amatchulidwa "mwachidule" amatanthawuza kuti munthu safuna kudzimangiriza yekha ndi zokambirana, kufotokozera, ndi munthu waulesi pa moyo. "Ndipotu" akufuna kutsegula choonadi kwa anthu, munthu amayesetsa kuwona choonadi. "Mwamvetsetsa" ndi chitsanzo cha cholungamitsa komanso nthawi zonse kupepesa kwa ena ozungulira.
Achinyamata amakono amagwiritsira ntchito mawu awo poasitic monga: "pancake", "mtundu" ndi "monga". Amatanthauza kusagwirizana , kugwirizana, zithunzi za maganizo ndi zochita za atsikana ndi anyamata. Mawu opweteka m'zinenero amalankhula za chikhalidwe chochepa, chomwe chingamve chisoni. M'kupita kwanthawi, mwatsoka, kwa ambiri amapita. Pogwiritsira ntchito mawu-zowononga, mumasokoneza kwambiri kulankhula kwanu ndi kumverera kwanu.
Kodi kuchotsa mawu-zowononga?
Tiyeni tiyankhule tsopano momwe tingachotsere mawu-zizindikiro m'mawu anu. Choyamba, muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungasamalire kulankhula kwanu. Kuwonjezera pa kulamulira kolimba, mukufunikira "zotsutsa" nokha. Mukaika cholinga kuti muphunzire kulankhula bwino ndikuyamba kulankhula momveka bwino , kenaka mukhale ndi chiganizo pazochita zanu.
Kulankhula za momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito mawu-mavitamini, ndizofunikira kuzindikira kuti pakufunika kuziikapo ndi zina. Njira yotsatirayi idzakhala yothandiza kwambiri, ngati mutenga ndi udindo wonse.
Sankhani phokoso loyenera. Zikhoza kuyimba, kukulira, kukunkha kapena kukhumudwitsa. Mwamsanga mutangozindikira kumbuyo kwanu kuti mwatchula mawu namsongole, tsatirani "zabwino" nokha ndi kulira. Mgulu mu khola loyankhula? Ndiko kulondola, moteronso mawu anu-zonyansa zimakhala zovuta kwambiri pazokambirana. Khulupirirani, m'malo mwake
Kuchokera pamalingaliro a psychology, mawu a parasitic amalingaliridwa kuti ndi imodzi mwa njira zothetsera kuyima mu ntchito yolankhula. Pamene munthu sangathe kuyankha mwamsanga kukambirana, phokoso losasangalatsa limapezeka. Zimayambitsa kusamvetsetsana - kukhuta ndi kumwetulira, kukokera, mawu obwereza ndi mawu amsongole.
Nthawi zina ndi bwino kukhala chete, makamaka popeza luso lokopa limachokera pamalankhulidwe oyenera panthaŵi yake komanso molondola.