"Ndikamakumbukira, sindinkakonda aliyense, poyamba ndinamva kusukulu kuti sindimakonda anyamata, ndiye sindinapambane ndi anyamata a pasukuluyi, chifukwa chiyani? Ine sindiri woipa, ndikuvala, ndithudi, osati mu mafashoni atsopano, koma osati moyipa, ndipo ndikutha kuyankhulana, vuto ndi chiyani? "Kodi inunso mukuganizapo? Ndiye ndikofunikira kuchita chinachake mofulumira, mwinamwake sipadzakhala nthawi yaitali kuti muthe moyo wanu wonse. Mwinamwake ndiye, nthawi yomweyo ku nyumba ya amonke, eh? Kodi mulibe chikhumbo choterocho? Kenaka lekani kudzizunza nokha ndi mafunso monga "Ndichifukwa chiyani sindimakonda anyamata?" Ndipo "Kodi atsikana samakonda anyamata, ndi chiyani chomwe amachikonda?" Ndipo yambani kuchita! Maziko omwe kutchuka kwa mtsikana yemwe si mwamuna kapena mkazi mnzawo akukhazikitsidwa ndi kudzidalira kwake. Koma momwe tingakwaniritsire, tsopano tidzamvetsa.
Anthu abwino amatha kuchita chilichonse!
Kodi mukuganiza kuti kupambana kwa amuna kumagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi atsikana okhawo omwe ali ndi zifukwa zabwino komanso oyenerera, komanso otsimikiza kuti atsikana okonda mafuta samakonda aliyense? Choyamba, kodi tanthauzo la "wandiweyani" ndi lotani? Chubby, wakuda, pyshechki, monga chonchi ndi china chirichonse. Ndipo mwachidziwikire, anthu onse ndi osiyana, wina amafunikira chitsanzo cha msungwana, ndipo wina ndi wamisala za akazi ofewa komanso okoma. Chofunika kwambiri ndi kupereka ulemu wanu. Ndipo ngati inu, pamene akunena zonse kwa iwo okha, musabise kukongola kwa zinthu zonyansa. Koma zovala si zonse. Tangoganizani kukongola konse komwe kumadziwika padziko lonse, ndi tsitsi losasamba, tsitsi losagwedezeka, kusowa kwa mapangidwe ndi misomali yosweka. Zosokoneza, chabwino? Ndiye kodi simungapezeko theka la ora kuti mumveke mankhwalawa ndikusiya ulendo wobwera kwa wovala tsitsi? Khalani osamala ndi zodzoladzola - matani a "pulasitala" adzakupangitsani kukhala osowa, osati okongola. Chikole cha kukongola ndi milomo yodzikongoletsera bwino, maso owonetsera bwino (omveka bwino) ndi wathanzi (osati wofiira wakuda kuchokera ku tchire la dzuwa). Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, kumwetulira. Kusangalatsa kwa nkhope zambiri kumakhala kokongola kwambiri moti amuna sangathe kuyang'anitsitsa maso awo, ndipo ngakhale dontho la chisomo sichidavulaze aliyense.
"Ndipo iye mwiniwake ndi wamkulu kwambiri, iye amawoneka ngati phala ..."
Mukuganiza bwanji, mtsikana amene akugwedeza sakuyang'anitsitsa nkhope pamene akuyankhula, ndipo amawoneka ngati mwana wamphongo ndi miyendo yosweka? Koposa - ndi chisoni, koma sitikusowa chotere. Kotero ife timangowonongeka (mukhoza kuyenda kunyumba ndi bukhu pamutu mwanu kuti mukambirane). Inde, ndipo pa chisomo chonse si ntchito yonyansa - izi zidzakuthandizani kuchita zolimbitsa ndi kuvina.
Zomwezo komanso ndi mawonekedwe - timaphunzitsa, timayesetsa kuti pa galasilo amayang'ana chidaliro pa msungwana wake wokongola. Ndipo kuoneka kotere ndi kayendedwe kosalala, musazengereze kugwiritsa ntchito. Chinthu chachikulu sichikusokoneza chikazi ndi chikhalidwe komanso kudzikweza.
Ndipo, ndithudi, timaphunzira kulankhula momasuka kuti tizisangalatsa. Sitikutsutsa mwamphamvu, makamaka pamsonkhano woyamba, timasonyeza chidwi - sitimletsa mnyamata kuti asalankhule za iye mwini, ndi zina zotero.
Kuthamangitsidwa ndi koipa?
Sizinali zambiri za kumasulidwa, atsikana angati samvetsa tanthauzo la mawu awa. Kudziimira nokha, kukhalapo kwa malingaliro anu komanso kukwanitsa kuteteza, chifukwa cha erudition ndi maphunziro - zonse izi ndi phindu la kumasulidwa, lomwe siliyenera kutayidwa. Koma kufotokoza momwe munthuyo akulankhulira sikofunikira. Ngati mtsikana yemwe amachita ngati mwamuna sakonda mnyamata, ndiye izi sizosadabwitsa. Anyamata oterewa sakudziwa ngati munthu aliyense amene mungamange naye chikondi,
Zimene atsikana amakonda achinyamata, yankho lenileni silidzatuluka - aliyense ali ndi zokonda zosiyana, koma chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti izi ziyenera kukhala zachibadwa. Musakhale wamanyazi nthawizonse kukhala nokha, ndiyeno funso lakuti, "Ndichifukwa chiyani sindimakonda anyamata?" Zidzakhala zofunikira.