Chifundo ndi chimodzi mwa zokhumudwitsa kwambiri. Winawake akulemba izo mu mphamvu yabwino kwambiri, ndipo wina, ndi dzanja lamanja la Maxim Gorky, akunena mwachidule kuti chisoni cha anthu chimanyozetsa. M'nkhaniyi, timaganizira za mutu wa chifundo, chikondi ndi zomwe, zimanyoza kapena kukweza kumverera chisoni.
"Kudandaula-kumatanthauza chikondi" kapena kumvetsa chisoni munthu
Zakachitika kuti m'malingaliro athu, kufanana pakati pazigawo ziwirizi kwakhazikika. Zambiri mwakuti nthawi zina sitidziwa zomwe timamverera mwamuna: chikondi kapena chisoni.
Tiyeni tiganizire kuti izi zimatipatsa ife chifundo ndi munthu wina. Tikadandaula wina, ndiye kuti, monga lamulo, timatsogoleredwa ndi zolinga zabwino. Zikuwoneka kuti ife timakhala ndikumverera komwe kumatikweza ife. Koma ndi ndani? Pamwamba pa zonse, musamvere chisoni anthu? Pa iwo omwe amafunikira kumverera uku? Imani. Ngati munthu akusowa chifundo chanu, ndiye kuti amadzizindikira kuti ali pansi kuposa inu (pakanthawi). Amafuna kumverera chikondi, koma mosamvetsetseka akudziona kuti ndi woyenerera kukonda chikondi chokha.
Ngati mumumvera chisoni mwamuna, ndiye kuti, kumverera kwake kudzakhumudwitsa, chifukwa kugonana kolimba kumamverera kudziletsa pa vutoli, ndipo chisoni chimamulepheretsa kulamulira. Mwina, mutatha kukonda, ndikusintha udindo wanu pamapewa anu osalimba, mwamunayo ayesetsabe kuwamvera chisoni. Mbiri imadziwa zitsanzo zambiri zofanana. Kuchokera kumbali, mgwirizano woterewu umawoneka wokongola, koma nthawi zambiri chisoni choyipa chimayambitsa zotsatira zowopsa kwambiri, ndipo nthawi zambiri kuledzera. Munthu mosadziwa amayesetsa kumumvera chisoni ndikukhala wosasamala, onse m'maso mwake ndi m'maganizo mwanu. Bwalolo latseka
Chifundo ndi chifundo
Ambiri angaike mau awa mzere umodzi, monga ofanana, koma pakati pa kumverera chisoni ndi chifundo pali kusiyana kwakukulu.
Vuto lachisoni ndilo kuti munthu amene ali ndi malingaliro ameneĊµa samva mphamvu kapena sakudziwa momwe angathandizire. Chisoni mu nkhani iyi ndikumverera kuchokera ku kuzindikira kwa kupatsa kwanu. Imaipitsa woperekayo ndi amene amulandira. Nzosadabwitsa, nzeru za ku India zimati chisoni ndi mafuko okha, koma zabwino zimapereka chikondi.
Chifundo, komatu, chimasiyana ndi chifundo poyamba chifukwa chokhumba mtima kuthandiza. Timazindikira kuti winayo ndi ofanana, ndipo timapitiriza kumudalitsa panthawi yovuta. Ndi chifukwa chake timachitira chifundo. Chifundo, timadziwa ululu wa wina aliyense monga wathu, ndipo timayesetsa kuchepetsa. Kudandaula, timayang'ana zomwe zikuchitika patali, ndikuganizira osati zabwino (kufuna kuthandiza), koma chifukwa cha ululu ndi chisoni. Ngati chisoni chiri chopanda pake, ndiye kuti chifundo chimagwira ntchito.
Munthu amene amangoganiza zokhala ndi chisoni, amadzipereka yekha mwachangu chifaniziro cha wogwidwa. Kulowa mu ukonde wake (kufuna kudzimverera wokondedwa mwakumverera okwera, kuchokera mmalingaliro athu, malingaliro), chisoni chimakhazikika mu chivomezi chowononga, ndipo tsopano simukudziwa kuthetsa kumverera chisoni.
Chifundo chenicheni sichinthu chotsutsa, chimayendera limodzi ndi chikondi, chisamaliro ndi chisamaliro. Munthu akanena kuti: "Sindikumvera chisoni", izi sizikutanthauza kuti iye ndi wachifundo, mwinamwake wokambirana naye alibe mantha.
Kodi mungachotse bwanji chisoni?
- Kuzindikira chizolowezi chodandaula chirichonse chomwe "chimanong'oneza bondo", ganizirani zomwe zimakupangitsani inu kumverera. Ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, momwe chimathandizira wina. Mwinamwake, mwa njira iliyonse. Mukungosinthanitsa mphamvu zowonongeka.
- Yesetsani kuzindikira kuti posangalala (ndipo nthawi zambiri ndizo zomwe zikuchitika) chisoni, mumalepheretsa munthu wina kukhala ndi mphamvu ndi udindo pa moyo wanu.
- Ganizirani momwe mungathandizire munthu amene mumamudandaula. Mwina ndizokwanira kumulimbikitsa ndikubwezeretsa chikhulupiriro mwa iyemwini. Khalani okonzeka kusonyeza chikondi ndi kumvetsa.
- Ndipo nthawi zina ndizotheka kutsanulira chidebe cha madzi ozizira mwa mawonekedwe a choonadi komanso nthawi zina.