Chikondi ndi khalidwe lachikhalidwe, lomwe limatanthauzidwa ngati kusowa chilango, kupirira m'makhalidwe, chiwerewere ndi chiwerewere. Nthawi zambiri mawuwa amagwiritsidwa ntchito mwachindunji "chiwerewere", koma kwenikweni tanthawuzo lake ndi lalikulu kwambiri ndipo lingaphatikizepo kususuka, kumwa mowa mwauchidakwa, komanso kusowa kwa makhalidwe abwino komanso manyazi chifukwa cha zochitika zosayenera.
Kugonana
Kusasunthika mu gawo la kugonana kumatanthauza kusakhoza kuthetsa zosowa za kugonana ndi kufunitsitsa kuchita zogonana mosasamala kanthu za chikhalidwe cha nkhaniyo. Chiwerewere chachimuna ndi chachikazi chingadziwonetsere mu chigololo, kusintha kawirikawiri kwa kugonana, kugonana ndi alendo (nthawi zambiri muledzere).
Ngati kugonana koyambirira kunkaonedwa ngati kochititsa manyazi asanalowe m'banja, tsopano anthu awiriwa amakhala limodzi momasuka pamaso paukwati, ndipo kugonana kungayambe kuyambira tsiku loyamba. Ngakhale kuti ankakhulupirira kuti tsiku loyamba sikuyenera kumpsompsona munthu.
Potsutsana ndi vuto lachidziwitso chachikulu pazinthu izi, chiwerewere chimakula komanso chimakula: onse kuyambira ali okalamba ana ndi achinyamata akugonana. Tsopano msungwana wazaka 14 mpaka 16-16 yemwe amachotsa mimba sikuthenso.
Asayansi ochokera ku New Zealand adapeza kuti chiwerewere chimabweretsa mitundu yambiri yachisokonezo, kuwonjezera chilakolako chawo kwa iwo. Mwachitsanzo, amayi omwe nthawi zambiri amasintha zibwenzi zawo zogonana amakhala omwa komanso kumwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Zofufuza za amuna zoterezi sizinalole kuti ziwulule.
Kumwa mowa: matenda kapena kunyansa?
Madokotala amakhulupirira kuti uchidakwa ndi matenda, ndipo amafunika chithandizo. Komabe, chiwerengero cha anthu chikuyang'ana chodabwitsa ichi: ambiri amakhulupirira kuti si nkhani ya matenda, koma ndi makhalidwe oipa. Ndipotu, zonsezi ziri zolondola, zonsezi, zokhazokha mwa njira yake: uchidakwa ndi chikhalidwe chachiwiri.
Anthu omwe amakhulupirira kuti uchidakwa ndi chilakolako chokwanira, samangowona zotsatira ngati chiwopsezo choyera, kufooka kwa khunyu kapena kufa. Vuto ndilokuti munthu amadziponyera yekha mwadzidzidzi - pambuyo pake, palibe yemwe amamukakamiza kuti amwe, ndipo amachichita yekha. Choncho, galasi yoyamba - ichi ndi chiwonetsero cha kunyenga, kenako zotsatira zake zikhoza kutsatidwa. Ambiri amayamba kumwa ndipo sangathe kuimirira mpaka ataledzera kwathunthu, ndipo cholakwa chake ndizo galasi yoyamba. Sindingayambe - sipadzakhala chilichonse choletsa.
Kuledzeretsa monga matenda kungatheke chifukwa cha wodwala, wodwala matenda ozunguza bongo, kugwedezeka, kumwa. Pazifukwa izi zimakhala zovuta kupirira popanda njira zachipatala, ndipo nthawi zina sizingatheke. Pa nthawi yomweyi, sizodabwitsa: munthu amasankha, adwala naye kapena ayi.
Pali zophweka koma zenizeni kunena kuti: "Simungamwe - musamamwe!". Kodi kumatanthawuza chiyani kuti muzimwa? Izo zikutanthauza kukhala pa izo
Kuledzeretsa kumakhala kovutikira mwadzidzidzi. Izi ndi zina mwazochitikazo pamene wodwalayo ali ndi udindo pa maonekedwe a matendawa, ndi zotsatira zake. Ngati munthu akusintha udindo kwa achibale, mankhwala, moyo - mwinamwake, kutha kumakhala kowawa. Ndipo kuvomereza udindo wa munthu pakumwa ndi kupanga chisankho chodziletsa kumathandiza kupeŵa vuto.