Maganizo ambiri omwe anthu amamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndi osavuta kuzindikira. Inde, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kumasintha munthu, ndipo kumasintha kwathunthu: kuyamba ndi zizolowezi ndi khalidwe , kutha kwa maonekedwe. Koma nthawi zonse kusintha kumeneku sikuonekera. Koma poyamba kumwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo kumadziwika, ndi mwayi waukulu kuti uchotse. Popeza kuti masiku ano palibe munthu amene sakhala ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso "amanyansidwa" ndizochita zopusa, ngakhale munthu wochenjera kwambiri angadziwe, ndikofunikira kudziwa njira zina zodziwiritsira ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kuti athe kuthandiza achibale anu kapena anzawo, ngati mwadzidzidzi pangozi tsoka .
Momwe mungadziwire munthu wodalira mankhwala?
- Makhalidwe . Choyamba, ndiyenera kulabadira kusintha kwa chikhalidwe ndi khalidwe. N'zomveka kuti anthu angathe kusintha, koma izi sizikusintha mwadzidzidzi mwadzidzidzi, popanda chifukwa chilichonse. Kotero chimodzi mwa zizindikiro za momwe angazindikire mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndi mawonekedwe a kusintha kwakukulu kwa munthu: ndiye iye ali wokondwa, ndiye mu mphindi yotsatira iye ali kale wosayanjanitsitsa ndi wopanda pake, ndiye akukonda dziko lonse kachiwiri. Tiyeneranso kuchenjezedwa ndi chikondi chochulukirapo, makamaka ngati munthu amakhala wodekha komanso wodekha. Izi ndizoona makamaka momwe tingadziwire munthu wogwiritsira ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo pogwiritsa ntchito udzu, chifukwa nthawi zambiri zimapereka zotsatira. Munthu amayamba kuyesetsa kuti azitha kukhudzana ndi thupi, nthawi zonse akuwonetsa chikondi chake, ngakhale kwa anthu odziwa bwino, kusekerera ndi zina zotero.
- Zizindikiro zakunja . Kawirikawiri, anthu omwe amamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo amasiya kuonetsetsa kuti amavala zovala zawo, tsitsi lawo, ndi zina zotero. Amatha kupita kunja mumsewu ndi zovala zodetsedwa, izi zimagwira ntchito kwa anthu omwe anali osamala kwambiri. Ndiponso, ngati munthu wasweka, amasankha zovala zamanja, ngakhale m'nyengo yotentha. Ndi bwino kumvetsera maso: atatha kumwa mlingo, amavala galasi ndipo wophunzirayo amachoka kapena kugwirizana. Kawirikawiri, zizindikiro zakunja zimathandizira momwe angazindikire wodzitetezera, chifukwa cha mankhwala osokoneza bongo
ndi chidziwitso, kubisala kudalira kwawo, kawirikawiri kudutsa maulendo ovuta. - Ubale . Kawirikawiri, zoledzeretsa zimasintha kwambiri m'magulu awo: chiyanjano chakale chimatha ndipo "atsopano okondweretsedwa" atsopano amaonekera. Pankhaniyi, maubwenzi ndi makolo, banja, anthu onse oyandikana nawo nthawi zambiri amaphwanyidwa. Pangakhale mavuto ku sukulu kapena kuntchito, monga kukumbukira ndi ntchito zimakhala zochepa chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
- Thanzi . Inde, kumwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo sikungakuthandizeni koma kumakhudza thanzi lanu. Zizindikiro zazikulu zomwe zingathe kuwonedwa ndi maso: kutukuta, kugona kosokonezeka, kusowa chakudya chokwanira kapena kutaya kwathunthu, khungu lotupa ndi lotupa, tsitsi losalala ndi misomali.