Kodi kumvetsa chisoni ndi chiyani?

Chisoni ndi chifundo ndizo zogwirizana, koma zimakhala zosiyana. Chisoni ndikumvetsetsa bwino munthu wina mukumverera kwake ndi malingaliro ake, ndipo chifundo ndikumverera ululu wa wina monga ake. Ndichochokera m'banja kuti munthu amakhala ndi zikhalidwe zomvera chifundo, zomwe zimagwira ntchito kwa alendo. Kodi kumvetsa chisoni ndi chiyani? Mphamvu ngakhale kumuwona wokondedwa mwa munthu wachilendo ndikugawana zakukhosi kwake.

Vuto la chifundo

Musanayambe kumvetsa chisoni, nkofunika kuti muyambe kumvetsera, komanso mumve munthu. Kwa ichi, msonkhano waumwini ndi wabwino, koma osati kukambirana ndi telefoni kapena makalata. Mwa njira iyi ndizotheka kuwonetsera kwakukulu kwa chifundo, chifundo - pambuyo pa zonse, nthawizina ndikofunikira kukhala pafupi, kulandira munthu kapena kumvetsera.

Pofuna kumvetsetsa chifundo ndi kumvetsetsa, nkofunika kuti mumvetsere - ndipo izi siziperekedwa kwa aliyense. Choyamba, yesani kuchita zinthu izi zofunika:

1. Mvetserani popanda kusokoneza, kuyang'ana mmaso mwa munthu kapena iye.
2. Yesetsani kumvetsa zomwe interlocutor wanu amamva.
3. Mvetserani mwakachetechete, opanda ndemanga, muime ndi kuyesa kusokoneza interlocutor.
4. Tsatirani manja a munthu - kodi akutseka kapena akuyesera kutsegula?
5. Anthu ena amatha kumvetsa bwino wina, ngati akudziimira okha.
6. Musati mutchule uphungu uliwonse mpaka iwo atapemphedwa.
7. Musalankhule za bizinesi yanu - munthu ali ndi vuto, ndipo ndi bwino kumulola kuti alankhule.

Pokhapokha mukamvetsera mwatcheru munthuyo, mumatha kumvetsetsa kuti mawu ake achifundo ndi ofunika bwanji pakali pano.

Mmene mungasonyezere chifundo?

Zindikirani kuti, ngati palibe chifundo, ndizosatheka kuti mufotokoze bwinobwino. Ngati simukufuna kumvetsa zomwe munthu akumva ndipo atanganidwa kwambiri ndi kuthetsa maganizo awo pamabvuto awo, ngakhale mutayesetsa kukhazikitsa mtundu wabwino, simungathe kumva "palibe chifundo".

Ngati mumadziganizira nokha, ikani nokha pamalo a interlocutor, ganizirani kuti ndizofunikira kuti mutha kupulumuka. Ganizirani zomwe mukufuna kuti muzimva panthawi ino, ndi thandizo lanji limene mungayembekezere kwa ena. Ndichikhumbo chenicheni cha chimwemwe chomwe mnzanuyo amakulolani kuti mupeze mau olondola muzovuta.

Pofuna kuthandiza munthu kuti alankhule ndikufotokozera cholinga chake chosonyeza chifundo, gwiritsani ntchito mawu osavuta:

• chinachitika ndi chiyani?
• kodi mungandiuze?
• Kodi ndingakuthandizeni?
• Kodi mumamva bwino?

Mawu ophweka awa amachititsa munthu wothandizira kuti akhale wokonzeka kumvetsera ndipo ali ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi mavuto ake.

Kodi mungasonyeze bwanji chifundo ngati muli ndi chisoni?

Pali zochitika zomwe pafupifupi anthu onse ataya ndipo samadziwa momwe angakhalire. Mwachitsanzo, ngati wokondedwa wanu ali ndi mnzanu kapena wachibale wakufa, nthawi zonse sizimveka momwe angakhalire - kaya achoke munthu kapena akhale pafupi; kapena kuyankhula, kapena kumvetsera; zonsezi zimapangitsa kuti anthu ambiri, ngakhale mkati chifundo, kungokana kulankhulana ndi chisoni, chifukwa chake munthu ali ndi vuto lopuma. Mmene mungakhalire muzochitikazi?

1. Musakhale chete. Itanani kapena bwerani kwa munthuyu ndikumuthandiza ndi mawu.
2. Musayese kupeza zopindulitsa ("adamva zowawa kwa nthawi yayitali"), bwino kunena kuti anali munthu wokongola.
3. Yesetsani kulankhula ndi munthu za zomwe iyeyo ayamba kukambirana.

Sikuti aliyense angathe kusonyeza mmene amamvera, koma anthu omwe adziphunzira izi amakhala amzanga okondedwa kwambiri.