Bwanji ngati palibe mabwenzi?

"Moyo wopanda abwenzi ndiwopweteka kwambiri!" - ambiri adzanena ndipo sadzakhala olakwika, chifukwa ngakhale amakhulupirira kuti otsogolera nthawi zina amafuna kuthandizidwa. Koma bwanji ngati palibe mabwenzi? Kuti muyambe kumvetsa zomwe mukuyika mu lingaliro la "bwenzi" ndikudziwitsani ngati mulibe anthu otere m'deralo, palibe amene angatengere kukhala bwenzi lanu.

Bwanji ngati ndilibe anzanga?

Kotero, inu munaganiza ndipo munaganiza "Ine ndiribe mabwenzi, ndipo ine sindikudziwa momwe ndingakhalire popanda iwo," ngati chirichonse chiri chomwecho, ndiye tiyenera kuyang'ana mofulumira iwo. Ndipo, tsopano ndikofunikira kupeza anthu omwe mumacheza nawo pafupipafupi, musangomangika pulogalamu yomweyo "Ndikuyang'ana bwenzi lapamtima." Kuti abwenzi otere asakhalenso, kotero muyenera kungoyamba kukambirana zambiri. Kumene mukuchita izi, dzifunseni nokha, pogwiritsa ntchito kumene muli. Chinthu choyamba chimene chimachitika ndi kugwira ntchito (kuphunzira) ndi intaneti. Koma simuyenera kudziletsa kwa iwo, mwinamwake kwa nthawi yaitali mutaphunzira kuvina salsa kapena yoga? Chabwino, pitirirani nazo, panthawi imodzimodzi ndi zatsopano zomwe mukuzidziwa. Ndipo ngati muli ndi galu, zimakhala zodabwitsa - ziweto nthawi zonse zimakhala ndizinthu zoyankhula - poyamba zokhudzana ndi kudyetsa ndi kuphunzitsa, ndiyeno mwina, ndikumakhala mabwenzi abwino.

Chinthu chachikulu musachite mantha kuyambitsa zokambirana poyamba, kusonyeza kuwona mtima - ndinu wotsimikiza kukambirana, choncho musaope kuwonetsa ena.

Bwanji ngati palibe mabwenzi kuntchito?

Ambiri akudandaula kuti palibe mabwenzi aliwonse, ndipo sangathe kukhazikitsa ubale wabwino kuntchito ndi anzako. Taganizirani izi, koma kodi mukuzisowadi? Kulankhulana bwino ndi anzako ndibwino, koma ubwenzi sikuti nthawi zonse umagwira ntchito. Ndi nkhani zingati zokhudzana ndi abwenzi akale omwe ntchitoyi yatsutsana. Choncho, ngati mutachoka ku timu ya oyankhulana ndi abwenzi ndibwino, musadandaule chifukwa cha kusowa kwawo.

Bwanji ngati palibe mabwenzi enieni?

Zimatero - pali abwenzi ambiri, koma palibe weniweni. Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani? Poyambanso, yesetsani mndandanda wa mndandanda wa anzanu ndipo onetsetsani kuti palibenso wina amene mudadya nawo pud wa mchere. Ngati mumvetsetsa kuti izi ndi zoona, muyenera kuyesetsa kumvetsa chifukwa chake? Mwinamwake ndi inuyo? Kodi mumakonda "kufuula" kwa anzanu chifukwa cha mavuto anu, osafuna kuwamvetsera? Kodi mumagwirizana ndi anzanu kapena mumangokhalira kuwakakamiza? Ngati muli ndi mavuto ndi kulankhulana ndi kulemekeza zilakolako za anthu ena, zidzakhala zovuta kupeza bwenzi lenileni - moyo wanu wosauka sungaganizidwe kumbuyo kwa minga.

Bwanji, ngati wina sagwirizana pakati pa mabwenzi omwe alipo kuti akhale nawo panopa? Muli ndi njira imodzi yokha - kupeza anzanu atsopano ndikuchita zonse kuti mudziwe mnzanu wapamtima kukhala bwenzi lapamtima.

Kodi mungatani ngati mulibe anzanu?

Kuvutika ndi kusungulumwa ndi kusungulumwa mwachizolowezi kumalangizidwa kuti aziyankhulana ndi abwenzi kawirikawiri. Ndipo choti muchite, ngati mabwenzi omwewo sapezeka? Njira yabwino ndiyo kuyang'ana iwo, ndipo mudzapeza munthu kuti azilankhulana ndikudzikondweretsa nokha. Chabwino, ngati simungathe kuyankhulana ndi wina aliyense, musadandaule, gwiritsani ntchito nthawi yanu yaulere, monga mpumulo, monga kukonzekera zochitika zazikulu. Pakalipano, chitani chinthu chokoma kwa inu nokha, kubwezerani zabwino - kwa munthu wokondwa ndi wokondwa, anthu okhawo atsegule.

Ndipo ngati mukufuna kungouza wina ndi zina zomwe mukukumana nazo, osati ndi wina aliyense (kawirikawiri aliyense angathe kupirira makutu a abwenzi athu okondedwa), ndiye uzani blog yanu za izo. Mukhoza kupanga zosangalatsa, padzakhala owerenga omwe maganizo awo amagwirizana ndi anu. Pano kwa inu ndi anzanu atsopano oyankhulana. Ndipo ndani amadziwa, mwinamwake alipo munthu kumbali ina ya mtsogoleri yemwe adzakhala mnzanu wapamtima.