Chikondi ndi chidaliro zimayendera limodzi, zimayambitsa, zothandizana ndi kuthandizana. Kugonjetsedwa kosokonezeka mu chiyanjanochi ndichindunji mwachindunji ndi imfa ya malingaliro ndi ulemu kwa wokondedwa. Inde, palibe amene amapewa kuchita zolakwika ndi zochita zopanda pake.
Lero tidzatha kudziwa malingaliro osiyanasiyana, tiphunzire momwe tingabwezeretse chidaliro cha amuna, momwe tingachitire pambuyo pa chiwembu ndi zomwe tiyenera kuzipewa. Pambuyo pake, kudalira munthu kumatanthauza kuyembekezera ziyembekezo zina pa iye, kumupatsa mpata woti akhale ndi udindo pa tsogolo logwirizana ndi pakalipano.
Kodi mungabwezere bwanji chikhulupiliro mutatha kuzunza?
Zidzakhala bwino ngati mnzanu akudziŵa za kusintha kuchokera kwa inu komanso mwamsanga mutatha ntchitoyo. Muyenera kugwira ntchito mwakhama kuti athe kukukhulupirirani mukatha kukupatsani mwayi wachiwiri. Ngati kukambirana kwakukulu ndi kukhumudwa kwanu sizingakuthandizeni, sungani theka lanu lachiwiri kuti mupite ku katswiri wa zamaganizo.
Musati muwonetseke kuti muli ndi chiyembekezo komanso osakondwa. Izi zidzangowonjezera mkhalidwewo, kuwonjezera kukula kwa kusamvana. Ndikofunika kukhala chete, kufufuza zomwe zinachitika monga momwe zingathere, kuti mupeze mzu wa vuto lomwe linakukakamizani
chiwembu. Musagwirizane nazo ndikudziponyera nokha ku khola.
Osati kukambirana zonse zomwe zinachitika, popeza sikungatheke kubwezeretsa chidaliro mu ubale pambuyo pake. Mulole mnzanuyo adziwe kuti simukufuna kukumbukira, ndipo mumamvetsetsa kuti mukudzimva.
Ngati n'kotheka, musalankhule zachinyengo kwa abwenzi kapena makolo. Kupanikizika kuchokera kumbali zawo, malingaliro ambiri ndi malingaliro osiyana zidzangowonjezera mkhalidwewo. Khalani wodziletsa komanso kudzidalira, simukuyenera kuchotsa zinyansi m'nyumba.
Ngati simungapeze kukangana ndi wekha kapena wokondedwa wanu, ganizirani za kukula kwa ubale wanu. Kodi kudzidzimva kungakulolereni kukhalabe pafupi? Mwinamwake ino ndi nthawi ya moyo watsopano wa magawo onse awiri?
Musamunyoze mkazi wanu mwanjira iliyonse. Inde, bambo wabwino amaopa kutaya banja lonse komanso ana, koma simudzachiritsidwa bwino. Pachifukwa ichi, wokondedwayo angavomereze mawu anu ndikukhala pafupi, akuwoneka kutseka maso ake akale. Koma zonsezi posachedwapa zimakhudza tsogolo labwino. Ndithudi inu simukufuna kudzipereka kwa wokondedwa yemwe, pamapeto, adzakhala wosasangalala.
Ndipo chinthu china chimene ndikufuna kukumbukira ndicho ubwenzi wapadera ndi wokonda kumene. Ngati mukufuna kusunga tsogolo lanu ndi theka lanu, musanyalanyaze olankhulana, misonkhano ndi zokambirana ndi munthu yemwe adayambitsa kusakhulupirika kwanu. Ngati ndi bwana, ndi nthawi yoti musiye. Ngati wothandizana naye - zotsatira zake ziri zofanana. Nambala ya foni, zithunzi zojambulidwa ndi zokambirana zake ziyeneranso kuiwalika kuti abwezeretse chikhulupiliro chamtengo wapatali chimene simungawoneke kamodzi.
Mfundo yomaliza ya chiyanjano chanu ikhoza kukhala chitonzo cha wokondedwa m'ntchito. Choyamba, muyenera kukumbukira kuti simukujambula. Mwina ndi bwino kukambirana mfundo zina za moyo wanu,
Njira ina yobweretsera zonse, kapena kupanga ubale wabwino kuposa kale - yambani zonse kuyambira pachiyambi. Ngati mnzanuyo wakukhululukirani, mumasiya kukhala ozizira ndi kumangokhalira kukondana naye. Mutengere kumalo omwe mudakumana nawo, kumbukirani pamodzi nthawi zonse zomwe zimakumanga, yang'anani mbiri yakale ndi zithunzi, mukhale okonda kwambiri. Komanso, poyamba muyenera kuyang'ana kusamvana ndikupanga mgwirizano kuti munthuyo asakhale ndi nthaka yoganizira za umphumphu ndi chikondi chanu.