Wokondedwa, monga mukudziwa, wrestle - kusewera. Mipikisano mu moyo wa banja ndizosapeŵeka. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kusiya ndi kupepesa wina ndi mzake. Zomalizazi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi amayi. Tidzakambirana za momwe tingachitire mwamuna wathu kupepesa lero.
Wokhala chete, wamtendere
Kusemphana kulikonse kumasiya "sludge" yosasangalatsa pamtima, makamaka pamene palibe kupepesa kwabweretsedwa. Momwe mungakakamizire mwamuna kuti apemphe chikhululuko - timachita mwachindunji.
Amuna opusa samvetsa, ndizoona. Mtsutso uliwonse ukufuna mawu ovomerezeka a zomwe mumamva kuti zikukuvutitsani. Chinthu chachikulu choti mudziwe za chiyanjanocho sichiri pazithunzithunzi zapamwamba komanso popanda kunyozedwa. Ponena zakumapetoko mungadandaule kwambiri pambuyo pake. Yesetsani kudziletsa nokha ndikumverera kwanu.
Momwe mungamupangire mwamuna wake kupepesa ndi kupanga?
Musakhale chete ndipo musadzitchule nokha mlandu wa mwamuna wanu. Khalani woona mtima ndipo pangani zokambirana. Popanda kumenyana ndi mitsempha. Ngati mwakhumudwa ndikukhumudwa kwambiri ndi khalidwe ndi zochita za mwamuna wanu, muuzeni za izo. Muuzeni kuti mukufuna kuti mupepese kupepesa mwachindunji mawu ndi zochita. Fotokozani zomwe mumakhumudwitsa kwambiri. Khalani chete ndi wololera. Bwanji osangonena kwa wokondedwayo kuti: "Munandikhumudwitsa ndi zochita zanu. Pepesani ndipo musayesenso, chonde. Inu mukudziwa momwe ine ndimakukonderani inu. "
Amuna ena ali okonzekera "zonse ndi nthawi yomweyo" akawona misozi ya amayi. Nthawi zina mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito njira zofanana. Komabe, musagwiritse ntchito molakwa zofooka izi ndikuziwerenganso. Kuchita zamanyazi ndi kulira kosalekeza posachedwapa kudzakhala ndi chitetezo kwa wokondedwa wanu.
Kudalala ndi kubwezera si njira zabwino zothetsera vuto. Onetsani mwamuna wanu momwe mungathetsere mavuto anu mwachitsanzo chanu ndi mtima wanu pa iye.