Choyamba, mkazi amaopa zomwe sakudziwa. Choncho, ngati kubadwa koyamba kukuchitika popanda mavuto enaake, kuopa kubadwa kwachiwiri sikukhalanso kolimba kapena kulibe: mayi wokwatiwa amadziwa zomwe ayenera kuyembekezera ndikukonzekera. Koma ngati kubadwa koyamba kunali mavuto aakulu kwa mayi kapena mwana, kuopa kubadwa kwachiwiri kuli ndi maziko enieni ndipo mukhoza kuchotsa kokha ngati mutachotsa zifukwa zomwe zinayambitsa mavuto.
Koma, mobwerezabwereza, mkazi samadziwa zambiri za kubala ndi zomwe ziyenera kuchitidwa pa nthawiyi, koma wamvapo nkhani zambiri zovuta kuchokera kwa anthu omwe amadziwana nawo, mafilimu owonerera kapena kuwerenga maulendo pa intaneti. Ndipo akazi okayikitsa nkhani zoterezi zingachititse mantha mantha, zomwe zimakulepheretsani kumvetsera zowonongeka zenizeni ndipo makamaka zingayambitse mavuto pakubereka.
Kodi mungagonjetse bwanji kuopa kubereka?
Kuti mumvetse momwe mkazi amathandizira, pamene panali mantha a kubala, muyenera kufunsa chomwe chimayambitsa. Ngati iyi ndi mphekesera ndi miseche zomwe zimawopseza mkazi wa nerazhavshuyu, akhoza kulangiza zambiri kuti alankhule ndi iwo amene abereka mosavuta komanso opanda mavuto kapena amayi aakulu.
Koma zokambirana zina sizingapereke zambiri, ngati mkazi sali wokonzekera zomwe akuyembekezera pamene akubereka, sakudziwa momwe mimba yake ikuyendera komanso mavuto ake omwe angayambitse, sakudziwa njira yoberekera ndipo sali okonzekera momwe angathandizire njira yachibadwa yowonjezera . Amatha kulangizidwa kuti apite ku maphunziro a amayi omwe ali oyembekezera, pomwe mayi wapakati angaphunzire njira yachisangalalo, kupuma kokwanira pa nthawi yobereka , akhoza kuchita zozizwitsa zomwe zingalimbitse thupi ndi kuthandizira pakubereka. Ndipo panthawi ya kubadwa komwe, pofuna kupeĊµa mavuto alionse, mkazi ayenera kufotokozera mosapita m'mbali malangizo onse a dokotala ndi mzamba.