Mwina woyendayenda aliyense anafunika kudzifotokozera yekha m'chinenero chamanja. Ndipo, zodabwitsa, manja amathandiza kupeza chinenero chofala m'mayiko osiyanasiyana. Komabe, mwa njira iyi sitikulankhula kokha tikakumana ndi alendo. Chilankhulidwe cha mawu, nkhope ndi manja ndikulankhulana kwathu tsiku ndi tsiku. Timazindikira izi mopanda kuzindikira, koma sitidziwa nthawi zonse momwe tingalankhulire zomwe wina akufuna kutiuza. Za momwe mungamvetsere chilankhulidwe cha manja ndi kusuntha kwa thupi, momwe mungaphunzire kulankhula momveka bwino, tidzakambirana lero.
Atsikana a Chinenero Chamanja
Ambiri amayesa kumvetsetsa chinenero chamanja kuti adziwe kuti "inde" yanu ndi yani. Ndipotu, popanda kuzindikira, nthawi zambiri timapereka maganizo athu, tikutsutsana ndi mawu athu omwe. Kotero, mnyamata wowerengedwa bwino akhoza kuwerenga zizindikiro zotsatirazi za thupi lanu:
- Kuwombera pakhosi, kumagwedeza tsitsi lanu (makamaka ngakhale atsikana omwe ali ndi tsitsi lalifupi). Ichi ndi chizindikiro cha kugwidwa ndi chidwi. Ngati wina atikonda, timakonza bwinobwino tsitsi;
- kumenyetsa chinthu chopanda kanthu. Padzakhala malingaliro ngakhale kwa anyamata omwe sadziwa chilankhulo cha atsikana. Kusunthika koteroko kumapereka chikhumbo chathu chopanda chidziwitso pa chiyanjano, ndipo amuna amawerenga zizindikiro izi mu intuitively;
- Pazinthu zofanana zogonana zimanenedwa kuti akuthira ntchafu kapena ndodo (miyendo inadutsa);
- kudutsa zida. Ikuti tikuyesera kuti tipewe malo athu. Chizindikiro ichi chimawerenga kutseka ndipo safuna kupereka zolinga zake;
- mtunda. Pamene timakonda kwambiri munthu, timayandikira kwambiri kwa iye. Nthawi zina ngakhale mosadziwa. Amayi odzichepetsa makamaka, amayesetsanso kugwedezeka kuchokera ku phunziro lomwe akufuna kuti lifike kumalo ovuta kwambiri. Komabe, kuchokera kumeneko palibe chinenero chamanja kapena chinenero cha thupi chowerengedwa.
Chilankhulo cha thupi ndi manja a amuna
Muyenera kuphunzira chinenero chamanja cha anyamata ngati mukufuna kudziwiratu kuti woimira amuna ndi akazi ndi anu. Amuna amagwiritsa ntchito zizindikiro izi:
- kuyang'anitsitsa maso. Ngati izi zikuchitika pamsonkhano woyamba, samalani: mwinamwake, iyi ndi njira "yokometsera" iwe. N'zotheka kuti mumakonda munthu uyu, koma zolinga zake sizingakhale zovuta;
- ikuyang'anizana ndi inu ndi chigoba. Ngati gawo lakumtunda kwa torso likutembenuzidwira, mungakhale otsimikiza kuti tsopano muli pakati pa chidwi cha munthu uyu. Muloleni ayang'ane kudzera pawindo pa mphindi ino;
- iye amayima, akutembenukira kwa inu, pa miyendo yambiri yogawanika. Ichi ndi chizindikiro cha kugonana;
- adzaphweka. Ngati munthu waima kapena atakhala ndi chiwonetsero cha chidaliro, ndiye kuyang'anani wina ndi mzake masokiti ake akuti iye, mwinamwake, ali wolimba mtima. Muyenera kulola mnyamatayo kudziwa kuti ali ndi mwayi (ngati ndi choncho, ndithudi);
- pamene akumana ndi mawonekedwe, mwamunayo amamangirira mutu wake kumbali imodzi. Wokondwa - ichi ndi chikumbumtima chapadera ku malo anu enieni! Mutha kukhala wotsimikiza kuti mwamuna amene mumamukonda;
- tcherani khutu ku milomo ya munthu. Chizindikiro chabwino ndi chakuti ali omasuka kapena ali ndi kumwetulira kwabwino. Ngati mnyamata akugwedeza pakona imodzi pakamwa pake kapena kumwetulira mwamsanga ndi mantha, zimasonyeza kuti wokondedwayo sakhala womasuka kapena maganizo ake amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi chinthu china.
Chinenero Chamanja cha Okonda
Kodi mwakumana ndi munthu kwa nthawi yaitali, ndipo simungakhoze kuyembekezera mawu okondedwa? Yang'anirani, mwinamwake chinenero cha thupi lake chakhala chikukuuzani inu mwachikondi. Mwamuna wachikondi mosamalitsa amayesera kusonyeza mkazi wake kwa ena. Mawu ofunika ndi "anu". Amakugwirani dzanja, amamukumbatira m'chiuno, amaika jekete yake pamapewa ake - kawirikawiri, njira iliyonse ikhoza kupezeka kwa thupi. Kuonjezerapo, ngati simunamvere iye, mwamunayu adzayesera kukutetezani ku zongoganizira za "dragons". Adzagwira chitseko, kukupatsani dzanja, kukuimitsani pa galimoto yoyenda. M'mawu ake, adzachita ngati njonda weniweni!