Kunyada ndi khalidwe lomwelo, limene munthu ayenera kulichotsa, chifukwa silipereka kanthu kwa munthu, koma zimatengera zambiri kwa iye. Chifukwa cha manyazi, mukhoza kudumpha kumudziwa bwino kapena ntchito yodalirika. Kunyada kwambiri kumachepetsa mpata ndikupanga kusatetezeka, kudalira malingaliro a ena ndi kufooka kwa khalidwe. Anthu oterewa angagwiritsidwe ntchito mosavuta, chifukwa sagwiritsidwa ntchito kuteteza maganizo awo, kulola kuti anthu akhale ndi mphamvu zowonjezera kuti azichita zomwe akufuna.
Kodi mungatani kuti musamachite manyazi komanso kuopa anthu?
Pali malamulo omwe amauza momwe angasiyire kutsekedwa ndi manyazi. Choyamba, khalani omvera wabwino. Mmalo moganizira momwe mukuwonekera ndi zomwe ena amaganiza za inu, yesetsani kumvetsera anthu ena. Iwo ndithudi adzayamikira izo. Chachiwiri, yesetsani kulingalira pa chinachake. Ngati malingaliro anu akugwira ntchito, mudzakakamizika kuiwala za manyazi anu. Palinso njira yowonjezera yowonjezera kuti mumve omasuka kulankhula ndi anthu. Ndikofunika kukhala munthu wotseguka. Mungathe kufotokozera zomwe zili mu diary yanu, kenako mu blog, ndipo pamapeto pake muyiike pamalo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Kulankhulana kwabwino ndi anthu sikuchititsa manyazi kwambiri.
Kuti muyankhe funso la momwe mungasiyire kukhala wamanyazi a anthu, zizoloŵezi zina zingakuthandizeni. Choyamba, ndikofunika kudzidalira.
Pachifukwa ichi mungathe kunena nokha mawu awa: "Ine ndine wabwino kwambiri, ndimakonda ndekha," ndi zina zotero.
Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kuwuza momwe sungakhalire wamanyazi a anthu, ndiko kulemba mndandanda wa zochuluka za kupambana kwawo . Izi zikhoza kukhala ngati asanu omwe analandira kusukulu, komanso kuthana ndi sitepe yotsatira ya msinkhu wa ntchito. Mndandanda woterewu ukhoza kuchitidwa ndi inu pakompyuta ndikuwerenganso maminiti amanyazi.