Kusokonezeka kwa kukula kwa msinkhu

Kawirikawiri vuto la kukula kwa msinkhu kumachitika pamagulu a zigawo zina za kukula kwa umunthu ndipo zimagwirizana ndi kusintha komwe kumakhala kwachilengedwe, makamaka kusintha kwa mahomoni, komanso kuganizira za chikhalidwe cha anthu ndi chikhalidwe cha munthu payekha. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kaya ndi funso la nthawi yachinyamata ya msinkhu wa moyo wa munthu, kapena za msinkhu wokalamba kwambiri.

Makhalidwe akuluakulu a chitukuko cha msinkhu ndi kulingalira kwakukulu ndi kubwereza zowonjezereka za zitsogozo za moyo, zomwe zimapangitsa kuchepa kwa ntchito, kuwonongeka kwa maphunziro ndi kuphwanya chilango (ngati ndi mwana wa sukulu), zomwe pachiyambi zidzakhudzidwa ndi chikhumbo chothandizira dziko lozungulira iye, ndipo atadziwa kuti sikutheka kuchita izi, kawirikawiri kusintha kwa mayiko ena muchisoni, chomwe chingakhale ndi nthawi yosiyanasiyana.

Kodi ndine mfumu kapena ayi?

Pafupi nthawi zonse zaka zachisokonezo za kukula kwa maganizo zimapezeka mu nthawi za moyo pamene tikuyesera kudziwa malo athu pansi pa dzuwa, kuyesa kuchuluka kwa kukhala ndi "chikhalidwe" chomwe timakhala nacho, pofuna kutsimikizira kwa onse kuti tingathe kunena "mpando wachifumu" , ziribe kanthu, kaya ndi mutu wa kukongola koyamba kwa sukulu kapena dzina laulemu la wogwira ntchito yabwino pamwezi. Chinthuchi ndi chakuti nthawi yonse yopanga umunthu, pali nthawi yambiri, yomwe, njira imodzi kapena ina, tiyenera kudzitsutsa ifeyo ndi dziko lozungulira. Izi zikugwirizana mwachindunji ndi kusintha kwaumunthu. Mu chilengedwe, champhamvu kwambiri imapulumuka ndipo mabonasi onse operekedwa ndi moyo amasonkhananso ndi iye.

Mu psyche yathu, pali "chishango" chochokera ku nkhawa, koma pamene zida zathyoka, mavuto okhudzana ndi zaka amakula mu umunthu kapena, ngati mukufuna, kamphindi koyamba. Tinganene kuti panthawi imeneyi, chikhalidwe chimasonyeza ngati kuli koyenera kupititsa patsogolo geni la munthu uyu pamakwerero, komanso ngati zingamuthandize kumvetsetsa mphamvu zake ndi zofooka zake kuti adziwe njira yake yowonjezera.

Kodi pali ubwino uliwonse?

Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, zovuta zokhudzana ndi msinkhu pa chitukuko cha munthuyo zimakhalanso ndi mbali yawo yabwino. Zimatiphunzitsa kukhala ndi maganizo odzikonda, zomwe zimatithandiza kupeŵa kudzikonda kwambiri ndi megalomania m'tsogolomu, motero zimatipatsa ife kukhala pamodzi mwabwino, kumakhalidwe ndi kuika pazofunika osati zofuna zawo zokha. Kukwanitsa kuvomereza ndi anthu omwe ali pafupi nafe, ndipo ndi ife tokha timakhala zovuta kwambiri m'miyoyo yathu.

Ndipo mwa njira, malinga ndi ziwerengero, ndi omwe adatha kupereka ndondomeko yolondola ya zonse zomwe zimachitika panthawi ya mavuto, ndikupanga nthawi yomweyo mfundo zothandiza ndikukhala anthu ogwira mtima kwambiri, ngakhale kuti ndizochita zamalonda zomwe zimagwira nawo ntchito kapena zomwe zimakhala zovuta kwambiri ali. Adzakhala pamutu nthawi zonse pakati pawo payekha.