Makhalidwe apakati

Kusagwirizana ndichinthu chapadera m'magulu a anthu ndi psychological, omwe amasonyeza mtundu wautali kapena, mwa kuyankhula kwina, "malire" a chikhalidwe ndi udindo wa munthu payekha mwa magulu onse a anthu. Inde, udindo uwu ndi chikhalidwe cha umunthu zimayambitsa maonekedwe a m'mphepete mwa maonekedwe a makhalidwe. Kusamalidwa kumakhala koyamba, ndizosatheka kapena kusadzikuza kwa munthu kuti asinthe mkhalidwe watsopano, zomwe zimapangitsa kukana miyambo ndi makhalidwe ena .

Musasokonezeke

Kawirikawiri kutanthauzira kwa "umunthu wa m'mphepete mwachindunji" kumagwiritsiridwa ntchito ngati mawu ofanana ndi mawu akuti "declaration element", omwe, ndithudi, sali olondola, ngakhale kuti, pamlingo winawake, angasonyeze mkhalidwe weniweni nthawi zina. Zowonjezereka, zidzatengedwa kuti anthu amtundu wina ali ndi malingaliro apadera. Monga oimira magulu osiyanasiyana a anthu, anthu amtunduwu amakana (ndipo nthawi zambiri samavomereza) miyambo ina ndi miyambo ya anthu omwe ali nawo. Anthu a m'munsi akuvomereza ndikutsatira ndondomeko yawo ya miyambo ndi zikhalidwe zawo, zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito m'magulu otsekedwa kapena otsekedwa. Magulu osiyana amagawidwa mogwirizana ndi chikhalidwe, chikhalidwe, chikhalidwe, chikhalidwe, zokondweretsa ndi zina, maganizo ndi chikhalidwe.

Zizindikiro m'magulu

Inde, anthu a m'mphepete mwa nyanja ndi vuto kwa anthu onse, chifukwa mawonetseredwe awo ogwira ntchito mwa anthu nthawi zambiri amachititsa mikangano. Izi zikuchitika chifukwa chakuti ambiri a nthumwi za magulu omwe amapanga mmalo mwawo amakhala ndi zikhalidwe zina komanso zamtengo wapatali.

Monga lamulo, chotero, anthu apakati sangathe (kapena sakufuna) kudzizindikiritsa okha ndi magulu osiyanasiyana ndikudziwika ngati mamembala awo. Zotsatira zake, magulu ambiri amakhalidwe abwino ndi a chikhalidwe amatsutsa munthu, zomwe zimayambitsa vuto la kusasunthika pakati pa anthu ndi kusungulumwa komanso, kufunafuna anthu omwe ali ndi maganizo amodzi - motero amapanga magulu atsopano otsekedwa kapena otsekedwa. Oimira ma maguluwa, makamaka, "chikhalidwe chamtundu" ndikuchikhala, monga lamulo, ndizovuta kwambiri. Kumverera kwa "fragility" ndi kusakhulupirika kwa dziko sikukulolani kuti mupumule ndikupanga zolakwitsa za khalidwe kuti mukhululukidwe ndi anthu.

Zisonkhezero za anthu osagwirizana ndi anthu

Chifukwa cha kusintha kwa chikhalidwe cha anthu (osati nthawi yomweyo), magulu atsopano opanga ntchito amakhazikitsidwa mu chuma, ndale ndi chikhalidwe, zomwe zimayambitsa kusamuka (kapena kufooketsa mphamvu) za magulu a chikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe, zomwe zimachepetsa chikhalidwe cha anthu ndi gulu lonse. Mkhalidwe wotere wa anthu ukhoza kuonedwa ngati nthawi yowonjezereka kwa mikangano ndi kuwonjezeka kwa kusiyana kwa gulu.