Nthawi zambiri timasokoneza malingaliro a nzeru ndi malingaliro. Mkazi wanzeru ndi mkazi wanzeru sali chimodzimodzi. Mkazi wanzeru nthawi zina amavutika kubisa maganizo ake pakakhala koyenera (inde, ndipo izi zimachitika). Maganizo amagwirizana ndi malingaliro, ndipo nzeru sizili nthawi zonse. Nzeru za mkazi zimakhala zakuya kuposa malingaliro aumunthu, ichi ndicho chidziwitso chachinsinsi chimene amalandira ndi mkaka wa amayi ake, ndipo omwe amasonkhanitsa chidziwitso chakale mu ubale. Zilibe kanthu kuti mwambi wakale wa Kummawa umati: "Akazi ndi asayansi mwachilengedwe, amuna amachokera ku mabuku". Mwinamwake inu munaganiza kuti mkazi wanzeru amafunika kuti abadwe. Komabe, ndi zoona, izi sizikutanthauza kuti simungagwiritse ntchito zinsinsi zomwe mkazi wanzeru wagwiritsira ntchito zaka zambiri.
Tiyeni tiyankhule za nzeru za mkazi: mu ubale, kumanga banja komanso kukhala osangalala. Chimene chimapatsa ufulu kutchedwa mkazi wanzeru, ndi momwe angakhalire.
Zinsinsi ndi malamulo a mkazi wanzeru
- Chimodzi mwa mfundo zazikuluzi ndi: Mkazi wanzeru samusankha munthu wokhala ndi chiyembekezo chochikonza. Mungathe kubwezeretsanso kavalidwe (kenaka, ntchito yoopsa kwambiri), koma mukhoza kusintha munthu njira imodzi - kusintha nokha. Mkazi wanzeru amadzikonda yekha, podziwa kuti kavalidwe kawiri ndi msinkhu woyenera komanso mwamuna yemwe ali ndi makhalidwe abwino.
- Chinsinsi chachiwiri cha mkazi wanzeru sichiyenera kutengera nsalu zodetsedwa m'nyumba. Amamvetsetsa kuti, pamene abwenzi okondana motsutsana ndi mwamuna wake, amadzimenya yekha, chifukwa banja ndi chinthu chimodzi.
- Mkazi wanzeru amakonda komanso amadzivomereza yekha. Chilakolako chake chofuna kuchita bwino sichiri chovuta, koma njira yodziwira chikondi chake payekha.
- Mkazi wanzeru samaonetsa malingaliro ake nthawi zonse, amadziwa kugwiritsa ntchito chida chachikulu - kufooka, ndipo samapitirira mahomoni. Amadziwa nthawi zomwe ayenera kuyembekezera, ndi nthawi ziti zomwe angachite. Iye samadalira konse pa kulakwa kwa munthu, podziwa kuti chikondi ndi ulemu ndizofunikira kwambiri.
- Mkazi wanzeru samangokhalira kuyamikira, osatenga makhalidwe onse abwino monga operekedwa. Pafupi ndi munthu woteroyo amamera, akudzimva kuti ndi woyenera. Ndipo kuyamikira kumtima kumamulimbikitsa iye kuchita ntchito zatsopano.
- Mkazi wanzeru samatha mwa mwamuna wake. Amamvetsa kuti, atasungunuka, shuga umapangitsa tiyi kukhala okoma, koma palibe amene amawakumbukira. Mkazi wanzeru nthawizonse amakhala munthu wokondweretsa: mwamuna wake, ndi ena, ndipo, poyamba, payekha.
- Mkazi wanzeru samadzipereka yekha kwa ana. Amamvetsa zomwe ziyenera kukhala chitsanzo cha munthu wokondwa komanso wodziwa bwino. Monga mayi amafunitsitsa kukhala munthu wokondweretsa komanso ana ake.
- Mkazi wanzeru, izi ndi zomwe akunena - "khosi". Kulikonse kumene akuyang'ana, amawonekera ndipo "amatsogolera" (mwamuna). Mkazi woteroyo amatha kukankhira mwamuna wake ku ziganizo kuti asamayang'anire kupanikizika kuchokera kumbali yake.
- Mkazi wanzeru amadziwa kuti nthawi zina mwamuna ayenera kukhala yekha. Kawirikawiri asungwana ali opricious, akuganiza kuti mwamuna akuyenera kuti akuchoka kutali ndi iwo. Iwo amayesera kukomana, kukwiya, ngati mwamuna sakufuna kukambirana zifukwa. Momwe zimakhalira mwanzeru
mkazi: amadziwa kudikira, podziwa kuti nthawi zina mwamuna amadzibisa yekha, ndipo amakhala chete chifukwa chakuti mkazi wake samusamala za iye, koma chifukwa moona mtima safuna kuvala zofooka zake. Mkazi wanzeru amadziwa izi. - Monga munthu wanzeru, amamvetsetsa kuti zonsezi muzogwirizana ndi kuntchito, chinthu chachikulu sikumusonyeza kuti ndi wapamwamba, koma kuti athe kupanga chikhalidwe cha chikondi ndi chitonthozo.
Mayi ayenera kukhala wanzeru kuti akhale wosangalala. Malingaliro nthawi zonse samatsogolera ku chimwemwe, koma nzeru ndiyo njira yopitira kutero! Ndizodabwitsa bwanji kuti mkazi wanzeru samaletsedwa kukhala wopusa!