Malamulo a Golden Golden Communication

Anthu ambiri amayenera kulankhulana tsiku ndi tsiku ndi anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi khalidwe laumwini, chikhalidwe. Ndipo pofuna kutsimikiza kuti mbali zonse ziwirizo zimakondwera ndi zokambiranazo, panalibe mikangano ndi mikangano, ndizofunikira kudziwa malamulo a golide.

Malamulo 10 a golidi oyankhulana

1. Mu mkangano, palibe amene amapambana. Pali mmodzi yekha amene adzatopa ndi zokambirana ndikuwona kuti ndikuyenera kukupatsani. Kotero, ngati zochitikazo ziri pafupi ndi chiyambi cha mkangano, yesetsani kumvetsetsa nokha zomwe interlocutor akuyesera kukuwonetserani malingaliro anu. Yesetsani kupewa mayankho ovuta.
2. Malamulo a kulankhulana popanda mgwirizano amawerengedwa: khalani ololera ndi ololera. Chifukwa cha makhalidwe amenewa, zidzakhala zosavuta kuti muzindikire kuti interlocutor ali momwemo. Ndipo ngakhale ngati mwapeza kuti mulibe makhalidwe abwino omwe mumakhala nawo, khalanibe ndi chiyembekezo. Musadandaule.
3. Pewani, kuti musagwedezeke kwambiri. Mukupewa omwe amalankhula mosatha? Choncho, dzikumbutseni nthawi zonse kuti anthu akufuna kulankhulana, osati malo owonetsera mafilimu, omwe amawonetsa maola angapo. Komanso, mungathe, popanda kuzindikira kuti mukulankhula chinachake chomwe sichinali choyenera kudziwitsa wanu interlocutor kapena za inu, kapena za wina.
4. Malamulo okongola a kuyankhulana ndi anthu amalimbikitsa kukumbukira anthu onse omwe amakumana nawe panjira ya moyo. Tchulani mayina awo, malo osonkhana nawo. Ngati pamsonkhano woyamba simukumbukira dzina la mlendo, musazengereze kufunsa. M'tsogolomu, mukamakambirana nthawi ndi nthawi, kambiranani ndi dzina lake.
5. Ngati nyumba yanu itayenderedwa ndi alendo, kuti mupange mpweya wabwino, mukhoza kuthetsa vutoli mwa kuwapatsa chakudya kapena kumwa. Pa nthawi yomweyo ndikofunika kuphika zokomazo. Choncho, sizingakhale zodabwitsa ngati mukukonzekera mwamsanga kukonza mbale.
6. Ma ma email, ndi bwino ngati ali ochepa. Gwirizanani kuti ndizosasangalatsa kuwerengera kalata yochuluka kwambiri kuti mupeze chiganizo chimodzi, chomwe chiri mfundo yonse ya pamwambapa.
7. Phunzirani kulankhula molondola pafoni. Mukhoza kusiyanitsa zochitika zomwe zimayenera kuwuza munthu wothandizana naye za malingaliro anu, ndipo komwe kuli koyenera kukhala chete. Choncho, basi yonse sifunika kudziwa zomwe mukuchita tsiku lonse.
8. Onetsani munthu wothandizana naye kuti mumakonda zomwe amakonda.
9. Yesetsani kusunga ubale ndi anzanu ndi anthu omwe mumadziwana nawo.
10. Ngati munthu wakunja akulowa mu zokambirana, yesetsani kuti muyambe kukambirana naye mwamsanga.