Ngati mukuganiza momwe mungasinthire moyo wanu kuti mukhale wabwino, koma simudziwa momwe mungakwaniritsire ndi kumene mungayambe, nsonga pansipa ikuthandizani.
Kodi mungasinthe motani?
Palibe zodabwitsa iwo akunena, ngati mukufuna kusintha dziko - kuyamba nokha. Tikufuna kuchita izi: lembani pa pepala makhalidwe anu: mu chigawo choyamba - makhalidwe anu abwino, ndipo chachiwiri - makhalidwe omwe simukuwakonda komanso omwe mukufuna kuti musinthe. Tsopano yikani "chithunzi chabwino" pamalo otchuka ndikuwerenganso nthawi ndi nthawi. Siyani gawo lachiwiri kuti "mudziwe mdani panokha."
Pofuna kuti zinthu zikhale bwino, mukufunikira chikhumbo cha munthu kuti asinthe khalidwe lake. Tsoka ilo, palibe malamulo otsimikizika ndi osasinthika a momwe mungasinthire zolakwa zanu muzithunzi, chifukwa anthu onse ali pawokha. Koma tinatenga malangizo omwe angakuthandizeni.
- Mukamalemba zolemba zanu zowerengeka, muwerenge. Kodi mwaiwalapo nthawi ina iliyonse? Dziwani mbali zanu zoipa ndikuyang'anitsitsa kuti muwachotse. Zovuta ndizosavuta kumenyana ngati mwakonzeka kuti musinthe.
- Tsopano, motsutsana ndi zolakwa zonsezi, lembani chifukwa chake zimasokoneza, chifukwa chake mukufuna kuchotsa izo. Lamulo lofunika kwambiri - dzifunseni nokha, osadalira mawu a ena. Muyenera kuzindikira kuti mwasankha kusintha, chifukwa mukufuna izi, osati chifukwa, mwachitsanzo, kulemera kwakukulu kumalepheretsa wokondedwa wanu. Nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti simuyenera kudalira maganizo a anthu ena omwe akuyesera kuti akuuzeni mawu awo. Inu mumapanga tsogolo lanu lanu,
kotero palibe wina amadziwa momwe mungasinthire inu. - Tsopano mukukumana ndi ntchito yothetsera njira ndi njira zothetsera vuto lililonse. Onetsetsani kuti muzilembe.
- Ngati malingaliro atsopano akubwera m'maganizo mwanu, yesani kulembetsa kukwaniritsa kwawo mundandanda wanu. Ndithudi, palibe ntchito imodzi yomwe idzafunike kuthetsa zolakwa zake zonse. Onetsetsani kutsatira ndondomeko ya tsikulo. Yesani kulemba zolakwa zanu ndi madera ovuta, ndipo, chofunikira kwambiri, kupambana. Yesetsani kukhalabe olimba ngakhale mutakhala ndi zovuta zina - khalidwe labwino ndilo lakapambana. Kusunga malingaliro athu kudzathandiza kusintha kwabwino, kwa iwe mwini komanso kwa ena.