Mavuto a m'banja

Masiku ano, anthu akukumana ndi mavuto a m'banja. Anthu ena amawapeza mosavuta, koma mabanja ena amathetsa banja. Kuti musakhale pakati pa osudzulana, muyenera kuphunzira kulimbana ndi mavuto osiyanasiyana.

Mavuto angakhalepo m'moyo wa banja

Simukugwirizana.

Kawirikawiri anthu amavomereza kukwatira, chifukwa cha mtundu wina wapindula, pomwe samamvetsera kumverera . Pambuyo pake pamakhala kuzindikira kuti sikungatheke kukhala pafupi ndi munthu uyu. Mawu akuti: "Ndizovuta - kugwera m'chikondi" sichikugwiritsidwa ntchito mobwerezabwereza. Mavuto onse amabwera chifukwa cha maganizo osiyana kwambiri pa moyo.

Kuthetsa vuto la banja ili

Ngati mumvetsetsa kuti ukwatiwo ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu komanso kuti maubwenzi apamtima sungatheke, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kuthetsa mtendere. M'tsogolomu, mgwirizano wotero udzabweretsa ululu komanso chisangalalo, makamaka ngati muli ndi ana. Atachoka mwamtendere, pali mwayi wokhala paubwenzi.

Matemberero ambiri

Munthu akhumudwitsidwa, cholinga chake chachikulu ndicho kupeza chilungamo panthawi zonse. Muzochitika izi, zikhalidwe zonse za banja zimapita kumbuyo, zomwe zimayambitsa mavuto atsopano m'banja.

Kodi mungathetse bwanji vutoli?

Pofuna kuthetsa mikangano yomwe ikutsutsana ndikuchotseratu chinyengo mungapemphe thandizo kwa wina aliyense wodziimira. Kuonjezerapo, pali chida chimodzi cha chilengedwe chomwe chidzakuthandizani kupewa kuthetsa mikangano ndikupewa mkwiyo. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kudziyika nokha pamalo a mnzanu, kuti muthe kumvetsetsa, khalani chete ndikuyankhula mwakachetechete.

Kuvulala kwa ana

Mavuto ambiri a kuyankhulana kwa banja amachokera ku mavuto aunyamata. Mwachitsanzo, banja losasangalatsa la makolo lingakhale loipa zimakhudza maganizo a mwanayo. Mtsogolomu zovuta zidzasintha panthawi yomanga banja lawo. Kukhumba ndi kulephera kumanga ubale paokha kumadzetsa kutsutsana kwakukulu komanso kuthetsa banja.

Kodi mungathetse bwanji vutoli labanja?

Pankhaniyi, vuto likhoza kuthetsedwa m'njira zingapo:

1. Chinthu choyamba ndi chophweka ndicho kutenga ndi kupeza ufulu.
2. Ngati mukufuna kusunga banja, ndi nthawi yoti mukule ndikuchotsa mantha ndi ubwino wa ana. Kuti mudziwe vuto lalikulu la maganizo, ndi bwino kukaonana ndi katswiri. Chifukwa cha thandizo loyenerera, mudzatha kupeza njira yothetsera mavuto.