Mwamuna wangwiro

Si chinsinsi chomwe pafupifupi woimira wamkazi aliyense akulota za "kalonga wa kavalo woyera" kuyambira ali mwana. Ndipo ndithudi, aliyense pa nthawi yomweyo amaimira mtundu wina wa munthu wake, yemwe angamupatse modzikuza ndi "diploma ya mwamuna wabwino" atakwatirana. Koma ndi makhalidwe ati omwe khalidwe ili liri nalo? Tiyeni tiyesere kuzilingalira.

"Kotero kuti musamamwe ndipo musasute, ndipo nthawizonse munapatsa maluwa ..."

Maluwa osati osati pa nthawi ya tchuthi, komanso kupezeka kwa zizoloŵezi zoipa - ndithudi kuphatikiza kwakukulu, koma izi siziri mndandanda wa makhalidwe, kuti afotokoze chithunzi cha mwamuna woyenera. Ngakhale kuti atsikanawo akutsogoleredwa ndi lamulo "chikondi cha choipa" ndikusankha munthu woipa, komabe chofunikira kwambiri ndizo, khalidwe loyamba la umunthu. Ndipo izo zikanakhoza kuphunzitsa amuna awo momwe angakhalire mwamuna wabwino wokwanira kuti awasonyeze iwo pa malamulo ena:

1. Choyamba, zedi, zikhale zoyera, zoyera, zokongola, makamaka masewera. Ndiponso anzeru, odalirika, osamala, ofatsa, odekha ndi okhulupirira.
2. Kukonda ana, nthawi zonse ukhoza kuthandizira banja lanu ndipo mwakonzeka kuti mutengere mbali yanu yamphongo yamphamvu.
3. Chachiwiri, kuti ndikuyese monga munthu, kuti mukhale ndi chidwi ndi dziko lanu lamkati, kuti muzisangalala ndi kupambana kwanu, kuti mutha kuthandizira ngati mukugonjetsedwa.
4. Chachitatu, ndikofunikira kuti mwamuna wanu akupitirize kukusamalirani komanso atakwatirana, osati kumayambiriro kwa chiyanjano chanu.
5. Sindinaiwale kumvetsera, chifukwa, nthawi zina zimakhala zokwanira kuti ndiyankhulane pamodzi, kuti ndimvetsere wina ndi mzake.
6. Ndinakumbukira za maonekedwe achisomo: pamene ndinachoka kuntchito, ndinadula tsaya, ndipo ndikafika kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito, ndinamwetulira kuti mumangomva kuti wasokonezeka komanso akusangalala kukuwonani.
7. Kukupangitsani inu, okondedwa ake, zosangalatsa zodabwitsa: mwachitsanzo, mwadzidzidzi anaitanidwa kuti mukakhale ndi kanthawi kochepa.
8. Ndipo, ndithudi, ndikofunikira kuti tisunge chilakolako chokwatirana, chifukwa, kwa ife, nkofunika kwambiri kuti amayi aziwona kuti ndife okongola ndi ofunika, ngakhale titakhala zaka zambiri m'banja.

Mwamuna woyenera ndi mkazi wake

Mukhoza kulemba mosalekeza, koma musaiwale kuti choyamba mwamuna wabwino samakhala wopanda mkazi, mkazi wanzeru. Mukhoza kukhala ndi maphunziro apamwamba monga mukufunira, koma ngati mtsikanayo alibe nzeru, sangathe kukhala wokondwa m'banja. Akatswiri a zamaganizo akhala ataphunzira mgwirizano wopambana ndipo atsimikiza kuti akazi omwe ali m'banja losangalala amachita zinthu mofanana.

1. Choyamba, amafunsira kwa amuna awo. Kotero munthuyo akukonzekera: amafunsira - zikutanthauza kuti amamulemekeza, ndiye amafunikira.
2. Chachiwiri, musagwiritse ntchito zopanda pake pokambirana, koma kuyankhulana ndi munthu wanu muchinenero chabwino. Mwachitsanzo, "musaiwale kundiyitana" mokwanira kuti "muyitane ine ndithu."
3. Chachitatu, khalani okoma mtima, chikondi, chifukwa ndi makhalidwe omwe amapereka mowolowa manja mzimayi, bwanji osagwiritsa ntchito?

Golidi amatanthawuza

Komabe, palibe chinthu changwiro m'moyo sichichitika ndipo nthawizonse ndi bwino kusunga bwino, kumamatira ku golidi kutanthauza. Pambuyo pake, ngati zonse zinali zangwiro, zingakhale zosavuta kukhala ndi moyo. Inde, mtsikana aliyense ali ndi mwayi wapadera, koma sayenera kukhala wabwino ndi makhalidwe abwino a mwamuna woyenera, ayenera kuona mwa osankhidwa ake, poyamba, kukhala ndi umunthu wabwino ndikukhala osangalala pafupi naye. Kumbukirani mawu akuti "sakonda kanthu, koma ngakhale". Ndipo ngati mwapeza munthu, ngakhale kuti muli ndi zofooka, koma ndi zomwe mungathe kuzikhazikitsa, ndipo mumawakonda - uyu ndi munthu wanu. Pofunafuna zabwino, chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kutayika.