Maganizo a akazi amalankhulidwa mosiyana, koma amadziwika kuti amuna anzeru samawakonda. Mwa njira, mwamuna wanzeru ndi mkazi wanzeru sali ofanana. Ngati kwa munthu munthu ali ndi chidziwitso chochuluka pazinthu zosiyanasiyana komanso kuti angathe kugwiritsa ntchito, ndiye kuti malingaliro a mkaziyo ali m'magulu ena: sakusowa chidziwitso chofanana ndi mwamuna - sikofunikira. Adzazindikiridwa ngati wanzeru, kuphatikizapo amuna, ngati akuwonetsera nzeru zadziko ndi matsenga.
Ponena za mkazi yemwe sali wanzeru, amakhulupirira kuti n'zosavuta kusiyanitsa.
Ndi mkazi uti amene amaonedwa kuti alibe nzeru?
Zizindikiro zazikulu za mkazi wopusa ndi izi:
- iye "amadula choonadi cha mimba" mwayekha, osasamala za momwe anthu amachitira ndi izo;
- nthawi zonse amadziwa zolakwa zake;
- nthawizonse amatsutsana ndi munthu, kuti azikhala mwamantha, kutsimikizira kuti ali wolondola.
"Ofufuza a malingaliro aakazi" adapeza zizindikiro 10 zoonekera za mkazi wopusa:
- Iye ndi woona kwambiri ndi akazi komanso amuna, ndipo amanyalanyaza bodza lililonse.
- Ndikofunika kuti iye amve bwino ndikugonjetsa mkangano, ngakhale atayesa kusokoneza chiyanjano ndi mdani wake.
- Sakonda kukondana ndi amuna, kuganiza kuti ndi wopusa, sakudziwa momwe angaperekere.
- Mkazi wopusa amachita chidwi kwambiri ndi zinthu zazing'ono, osadziwa mavuto aakulu, njira yothetsera yofunikira kwambiri.
- Ngakhale ngati pali munthu wabwinobwino mnyumba, amayesa kuchita zonse zomwe iyeyo, kuphatikizapo zomwe munthu angathe kuchita komanso ayenera kuchita, ndikusankha zonse mwaulere, popanda kuganizira malingaliro ake.
- Sakhulupirira kuti mavuto a moyo wake amachokera ku zochita zake ndi malingaliro ake, akukhulupirira kuti "ali ndi tsogolo lotere."
- Mkazi wopusa ndi woimirira theka lachikazi yemwe amauza abwenzi ake za mavuto ake onse, amawafunsa za khalidwe lakelo m'banja, ndipo amagwiritsa ntchito mfundozi.
- Iye saganizira kugwira ntchito ndi anzake kuti "asambe mafupa" a bwana wake, powululira otsogolera mfundo zina, kuti, muzochitika zina, akhoza kudzipangira yekha, osaganiza ngakhale za zotsatira zake.
- Zizindikiro za mkazi wanzeru zimatsimikizira kuti iyeyo akudziyesa yekha mavuto komanso nkhawa zake zokhoza kuthetsa vutoli.
- Sichikukonzekeretsa ndikufunafuna njira yothetsera vuto lomwe lingatilole kuti tithe kuchoka pavutoli popanda kuvulaza anthu omwe akutsutsana nawo.
Kuchita kumasonyeza kuti mkazi sayenera kukhala wochenjera kwambiri, ngati wanzeru, ndipo izi ndi zofunika kwambiri kwa mkazi.