Ndizosangalatsa kumva kuchokera kumayamika anu okondedwa kapena oyamika, kaya ndi chakudya chokoma kapena chimene muli. Akazi, monga akunena, amakonda ndi makutu awo. Komabe, nkofunikanso kuti munthu amve kuchokera ku mawu ake okondweretsa ndi mitundu yonse ya "chisangalalo". Thandizo kwa wokondedwa mu mphindi yovuta limakondwera kawiri. Chizindikiro chotero sichitha kuwonetsedwa.
Kuphunzira kulankhula molondola
Mu mgwirizano wa moyo, mu ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, mawu akuti "ayenera" ndi "ayenera" akugwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri. Mkazi ayenera kukhala ndi ulesi, kulera ana, ayenera kuyang'anitsitsa bwino ndi kukhala "mkazi". Mwamuna, nayenso, ayenera kupatsa banja madalitso onse, kupeza ndalama, kuteteza ndi kuteteza. Palibe chomwe chiyenera kuchitika, uwu ndi moyo, womwe sungapeweke, koma sikuyenera kuopa. Mukufunikira kusintha ndondomekoyi, "valani maulendo." Pa zonsezi "ziyenera" nthawi zina timaiwala kuti tithandizane wina ndi mzake "Zikomo!".
Kuzoloŵera ku zovuta za moyo, amayi omwe ali ndi chizoloŵezi chokhwima amawagonjetsa. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, anthu amakhululukira zofooka zawo ndi zolephereka, kuposa momwe amuna sangathe kudzitamandira. Otsiriza, nthawi zambiri, ovuta kwambiri kulandira kugonjetsedwa. Pamene zikuwoneka kuti zolephera zawo zimawonekera kwa onse ozungulira, amawopsya. Pa nthawi ino, amuna amafunika kuthandizidwa ndi okondedwa awo kuposa kale lonse.
Azimayi amakhala okhumudwa, osadziwika kuti aziletsa maganizo awo. Amuna, m'malo mwake, sungani zochitika zonse mwa iwo okha. Zingakhale zovuta kuti wokondedwa wanu akuuzeni za mavuto anu ndi nkhawa zanu, koma ngati muwona zinthu ngati izi, ndiye kuti mawu othandizira wokondedwa wanu adzabwera bwino.
Ndi mawu otani omwe angamuthandize munthu kukuthandizani. Mwina, wina angakhale ndi mawu okondweretsa, ngati, mwachitsanzo, ali ndi vuto lokonda ntchito. Amuna ambiri amawoneka ngati mawu odzitamandira komanso osangalatsa. Musalole maganizo anu ndi kupereka malangizo omwe samawakonda. Musati mutenge mutu kuti muwerenge zokambirana ndikuchita bwino, chifukwa cha izi, sankhani zambiri
Musati mutenge kusintha kwa mwamuna mwayekha. Zodandaula zanu "ali ndi winawake" mwina palibe. Ngati maganizo a mtsikana asintha, ndiye kuti zikutanthauza chinthu chimodzi chokha - osakhala ndi maganizo. Ndipo ngati munthu abwera mu lingaliro - ndiye anapeza ambuye. Ndibwino kuti musamaimbe mlandu, koma kuti mumuthandize munthu wokondedwa. Musayese kupeza zomwe zachitika kwa iye. Pamene akufuna, iye adzakuuzani. Yesani kupanga zinthu zonse kuti ntchentche ipite mofulumira.
Samalani amuna anu ndipo mukhale mabwenzi okhulupirika kwa iwo.