Ngati mtsikanayo akudabwa kuti angayambe kukondana ndi azimayi aakazi, amafunikira malangizo kwa akatswiri omwe amadziwa za psychology za anthu omwe amakonda kwambiri kugonana.
Kodi n'zotheka kukondana ndi womanizer?
Mwamuna akhoza kukhala womanizer awiri: ngati ali ndi zowonjezereka kusintha kosasintha kwa ogonana, ndipo ngati zochitika zina za moyo zimamupangitsa kukhala choncho.
Mlandu woyamba ndi womanizer, omwe mungathe kukwatira nokha, koma nthawi zonse idzasintha ndi mwayi uliwonse. Chifukwa cha ichi ndi ntchito yochuluka ya mbali zina za ubongo kapena matenda a hormonal. Kukhala ndi mkazi wotere ndi kupereka nsembe ya munthu. Amuna amenewa nthawi zambiri amadzikonda okha ndipo samaganizira kuti ndichinthu chapadera.
Mlandu wachiwiri ndi womanizer yemwe wakhala ngati chonchi. Mwachitsanzo, kwa nthawi yaitali kayendetsedwe kake kakasintha. Kukwanitsa kubereka mtsikana kugonana kumatengedwa kuti ndi "kozizira". Mnyamatayo sangakhale ndi chilakolako chosintha osakwatirana, koma atagwira chizindikiro pamaso pa abwenzi ake, amayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zosiyanasiyana ndipo potsiriza amakhala womanizer weniweni. Zinthu zikuwonjezereka chifukwa chakuti sangathe kukhalitsa ubale wa nthawi yaitali ndi mmodzi wa osankhidwa ake chifukwa cha kuchuluka kwa mavuto a maganizo. Kupanga mkazi womwenso kumakhala ndi vuto la maganizo limene limaperekedwa pa wokonda mtima wopanda pake. Kuti amunene, mnyamata angayambe kuphwanya mitima ya atsikana osalakwa.
Musanayambe kukondana ndi womanizer, zinali zabwino kumvetsetsa zomwe amalemba. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kupanga ubwenzi ndi iye, konzani nokha. Pakapita nthawi, kuchokera pa ziganizo za mawu ndi nkhani zomwe zimasonkhana palimodzi, mukhoza kuganiza. Ndipo ngati mtsikanayo alibe mimbazer, mungayese kumukonda.
Malangizo a momwe mungagwirizane ndi mkazi wamanizer:
- muyenera kukhala bwenzi lake lenileni, wokambirana momasuka komanso wodalirika;
- osagwirizana, koma molimba mtima ayenera kusonyeza kuti ubwenzi wapamtima ndi iye uli wosasangalatsa kwenikweni;
- ndikofunikira kuyang'ana nthawi zonse pa 100% - chachikazi, wokonzekera bwino.
Choncho "chokoma chokoma" chidzakhala chokondweretsa kwa womanizer . Ndipo popeza "kuchotsa" nthawi zonse kumachokapo - chidwi ichi chidzasungidwa kwa nthawi yaitali, chimene mwamuna amadziwa bwenzi lake bwino, ndipo kuzindikira kuti zabwino zake ziri pamaso pake, zikhoza kukondana kwambiri.