Mphamvu yolankhulana molondola ndi anthu ndi njira yopambana yopambana moyo, chida chofunika kwambiri cha ndale, mtsogoleri ndi munthu aliyense amene ntchito zake zokhudzana ndi kukhazikitsa oyanjana. Kuti mumvetse luso lakulankhulana ndi anthu, muyenera kumvetsera uphungu wa akatswiri a maganizo a anthu.
Malingaliro a akatswiri a zamaganizo pofuna kulankhulana bwino
Kuti mudziwe momwe mungalankhulirane ndi kumanga maubwenzi, muyenera kupewa zolakwa zomwe mumakonda. Mwachitsanzo - kugonjera. Anthu onse ndi amodzi, sangathe kufika kwa anthu ena ndi miyambo yawo ndi zikhulupiliro zawo. Khalani ndi cholinga, ganizirani pamene mukulankhulana wapadera ndi interlocutor monga munthu.
Gwiritsani ntchito mawonekedwe anu ndi makhalidwe anu, chotsani manyazi ndi kuuma. Ndi munthu wolemekezeka, wokongola komanso wodalirika, ndi zabwino kulankhula ndi kugwira ntchito. Kuthana ndi kusakhulupirika - khalidwe ili lingasokoneze kwambiri kuyankhulana kwanu ndi anthu. Musapewe kuyang'ana mwachindunji - izi zidzakusonyezani kuti mukudalira interlocutor, ndipo mukhoza kudalirika.
Pamene mukukambirana, yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito mafunso omasuka omwe amalimbikitsa oyankhulana kuti adziganizire za iyemwini, afotokoze maganizo awo pazinthu zosiyanasiyana. Mmalo mwa mawu akuti "Kodi mumakonda buku lino?", Nenani - "Ndi mabuku ati omwe mumakonda?". Njirayi imathandizira kupeza malo ogwirizana ndi munthu aliyense.
Kuti muthe kuyankhulana ndi anthu, muyenera kumangokhalira kulimbitsa, kukulitsa zowonjezereka, kumvetsetsa nkhani zatsopano ndi zochitika m'matchalitchi, mafashoni, luso, ndi zina zotero. Ndi munthu wovuta komanso wophunzira, ndizosangalatsa kulankhula, anthu amakonda kupita ku umunthu woterewu.
Mphamvu yolankhulana ndi amuna
Kukwanitsa kuyankhulana ndi amuna kuli kosangalatsa kwambiri kwa amayi omwe akufuna kukhazikitsa moyo wawo ndi kupeza "hafu" yawo. Pofuna kupeza njira kwa mwamuna, akatswiri a maganizo amauza mkazi kuti azilankhula mochepa ndi kumvetsera mwatcheru. Oimira abambo amphamvu nthawi zambiri amawakwiyitsa akazi nthawi zonse, ndipo ngati kuyankhulana kumachitika pa ntchito, kungachititse zolakwika ndi mikangano.
Kuti muyankhule momveka bwino, nthawi zambiri mumatchula kuti interlocutor ndi dzina, chifukwa munthu aliyense amakonda mau ake. Kupempha kwa
Musasokonezedwe pamene mukuyankhula ndi mwamuna. Azimayi ena pa zokambirana amatha kuchita zinthu zina zochepa - kutumiza mauthenga, kuwonera kanema, ndi zina zotero. Amuna amawona khalidwe ili ngati osasamala kapena amati nthawi ndi yoti achoke.
Chimodzi mwa zinsinsi zazikulu za kulankhulana bwino ndi abambo ndi kuthekera kupeza "chinsinsi" pamtima mwake. Pafupifupi onse omwe ali ndi chikondi cholimba cha kugonana pamene akuwoneka kuti ali oyenera mu chinachake. Kaŵirikaŵiri khululukirani uphungu kuchokera kwa munthu amene mumamukonda, ndipo amafunitsitsa kuti alankhulane nanu kwambiri.