Kodi kutsutsidwa ndi chiyani?

Kutsutsidwa kolakwika kumakhudza kwambiri mgwirizano wa anthu ndi moyo wamba. Ngakhale kwa anthu ambiri ndizolimbikitsa kwambiri kuti mupitirizebe kukwaniritsa zinthu zatsopano.

Kodi kutsutsidwa ndi chiyani?

Mwa mawu awa amamvetsetsa kuthekera kwa kufotokoza maganizo awo olakwika pazochitika kapena zochitika zina. Poyambirira, kutsutsidwa kumabweretsa cholinga chenichenicho - chikhumbo chosintha zinthu kuti zikhale bwino. Bwanji, pamapeto, nthawi zambiri pamakhala mikangano yambiri ndi zodandaula? Izi ndi chifukwa cha kusiyana kwa cholinga chodziwikiratu - chilakolako chochita zabwino, ndi chidziwitso - zenizeni zenizeni. Mwachidziwikire, pali zolinga zingapo zomwe zimayambitsa zotsatira zoipa za kutsutsidwa:

• chilakolako chochititsa manyazi kapena kupweteka;
• chilakolako chodziteteza ku zofuna za ena;
• kufunitsitsa kudzipangitsa kudzidalira ndikudzikhazikitsa.

Mitundu ya kutsutsidwa

Kawirikawiri, pali mitundu iwiri ya kutsutsidwa:

1. Kutsutsa kokhazikika - cholinga chake ndi kukonzanso zochitika ndi zochitika zina. Ngati mugwiritsa ntchito njirayi, zotsatira zake zidzakhala zabwino, aliyense adzasankha zolondola ndi kusintha ntchito yawo kapena khalidwe lake. Kudzudzula koyenera kumatanthauza kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa mayankho, ndiko kuti, mumapeza yankho loona pa funso lomwe lafunsidwa. Mwachitsanzo, mungathe kufunsa anzanu kapena abwana za zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti musinthe ntchito yanu. Chotsatira chake, mudzalandira ndemanga zenizeni ndi zokhumba, izi ndi kutsutsa kolimbikitsa.
2. Kutsutsa koopsa kapena kosayenera . Pachifukwa ichi, munthu samva kafukufuku kapena kuvomereza kuchitapo kanthu, komabe mtundu wa kufotokozera, mwachitsanzo, "Simungachite chabwino chilichonse", ndi zina zotero. Kutsutsa koteroko kumakhudza kwambiri kudzidalira ndi khalidwe. Nthawi zambiri kutsutsidwa kopanda nzeru kumagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi makolo, kulankhulana ndi ana.

Musanapereke ndemanga yeniyeni zochitika kapena zochitika, muyenera kudzifunsa funso laumunthu: "Kodi mukufuna kukwaniritsa chiyani?". Mwinamwake cholinga chake ndi kungokhumudwitsa munthu kapena inu mukufunabe kusintha zinthu. Taganizirani kuti zosankha zanu zonse zidzakhudza mkhalidwe ndi moyo wamba.

Posankha kutsutsa kokondweretsa, gwiritsani ntchito zigawo zitatu zofunika:

1. Fotokozani zoona ndikufotokozerani zonse zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi inu.
2. Chitani zonse zomwe zingatheke kuti ubale wanu ndi munthuyo usapitirire, ndipo iye anamvetsera mwachidwi ndemangazo.
3. Kuti tipeze zotsatira zoyenera, ndiko kuti, kukonza vutoli