Mmene mungagonjetsere kukayikira - malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo

Munthu sali wobadwa wamanyazi ndi wosatetezeka mwa iyemwini. Makhalidwe amenewa amapangidwa ndi iye m'moyo wake, kuphatikizapo kuyambira ali mwana. Kuyanjana ndi makolo ndi abwenzi kungakhale ndi udindo waukulu pakupanga umunthu wa munthu . Pambuyo pake, manyazi ambiri amatha kumulepheretsa kumbali zosiyanasiyana za moyo. Monga lamulo, munthu wosatetezeka amakumana ndi mavuto mukulankhulana, amawopa kuti samamvetsetsa, amanyodola ndi ena. Pankhaniyi ndi zovuta kuti muyanjane, fotokozani maganizo anu, chitetezeni zokonda. Pambuyo polephera kulankhulana, kudzipatula komanso kukhumudwa kwa mavuto aumwini kumabuka. Pali mgwirizano wamkati, kusakhutira kukula ndi kupita patsogolo, zomwe zingachititse kukhumudwa. M'munsimu muli malangizo angapo ochokera kwa akatswiri a maganizo a momwe angagonjetsere kukayikira.

Kodi mungathetse bwanji mantha ndi kusatsimikizika?

1. Choyamba, musadziyang'ane nokha kudzera mwa ena ndipo nthawi zonse muziganizira zomwe ena amaganiza. Zochita zoyenera kuchita, popanda kuyembekezera kuvomerezedwa kapena kukana kumbali.
2. Kusiya malo anu otonthoza kungakhale ntchito yovuta. Koma kusintha kwa chizoloŵezi ndi ntchito zazing'ono koma zosazolowereka m'moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku zidzakuthandizani kukhala ndi chidaliro.
3. Ngati pali mantha oti akwaniritse zolinga zazikulu, pakadali pano, alangizi othandizira alangizi amalangizi akuwauza kuti azigawikana kukhala ang'onoang'ono. Kulimbana ndi zovuta, kuchita zochepa.
4. Mulimonsemo, muyenera kulankhula zambiri. Kungakhale kukambirana ndi oyandikana nawo, kupereka njira zonyamula anthu, kulankhulana ndi wogulitsa m'sitolo.
5. Mbali yotsatira ndikutha kukana zosavomerezeka. Zingawoneke zovuta, koma zidzasintha moyo wanu m'tsogolomu.
6. Makhalidwe oipa kwambiri pa moyo ndi njira yeniyeni yoganizira . Ndikofunika kuchitira zochitika mwachidziwikire, popanda kutaya mwayi wa udindo.

Mukuyenera kudzikonda nokha ndikutamanda nthawi zonse - izi zimapangitsa kudzidalira kwanu. Kutseguka kuti tiyang'ane maso awo sizingatheke, koma ndibwino kuyesa kupirira nawo ndikukhala munthu wodalirika komanso wodzidalira.