Ndi ndani amene akuwongolera - ubwino ndi zoipa za ubale wotero

Malo apamtima amalola zowonongeka zosiyanasiyana zomwe zimapangitsa abwenzi kusangalala. Nthawi zina chikhumbo choyesa chinthu chatsopano pa kugonana kumabweretsa mfundo yakuti pali anthu oposa awiri pabedi. Izi zimatchedwa swing.

Kodi kusambira ndi chiyani?

Ngati muyang'ana mawu ovomerezeka, ndiye kuti kuthamanga kumatchedwa kuti nthawi imodzi kapena osagwirizana pakati pa anthu omwe ali pa banja kuti alowe m'banja. Gawoli limaphatikizapo zochitika zomwe pali mwamuna ndi mkazi kapena bedi pabedi limodzi. Anthu ambiri amasokoneza malingaliro a kugonana pogonana ndi magulu a gulu, chifukwa mfundo izi ndi zofanana, ndipo pa choyamba chirichonse chimachitika mwa mgwirizano wa ophunzira, ndipo aliyense amafotokoza zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito zogonana ndi zomwe siziri.

Pokukambirana za mutu - omwe akungoyendayenda, ziyenera kuwonetsedwa kuti pali mitundu yambiri ya maubwenzi. Kuthamanga mofewa kumatanthawuza kuti anthu ena amangochita nawo chiyambi chabe, zomwe nthawi zina zimaphatikizapo kugonana kwa m'kamwa, koma kulowetsa m'mimba sikuchotsedwa. Zatsopano zoterezi zimapanga zonunkhira ku mgwirizanowu. Kuthamanga kotsekedwa kumatanthauza kuti mabanja atsopano agonana popanda wina ndi mnzake. Mtundu wotsatira ndi kutseguka kwachindunji, kumene anthu amagonana m'chipinda chimodzi kapena bedi, ndipo zimaphatikizapo kukambirana.

Kuthamanga - ubale wanji?

Mabanja omwe amasankha maubwenzi apamtima ndi anzawo omwe amachitira nawo mbali amawatsutsa kuti akufuna kukhala ndi zokhudzidwa zatsopano ndikupereka maganizo omwewo kwa theka lawo. Amanenanso kuti swing amawathandiza kuti agwirizane. Anthu ambiri okonda kugonana koteroko ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Awiri awiriwa amakhulupirira kuti ubwenzi wapamtima ndi anzawo ndi iwo omwe amathandiza kuti apange maubwenzi awo. Amakhala otseguka kwambiri ndi wina ndi mzake ndipo samapewa malingaliro awo ndi zilakolako zawo, zomwe ziŵiriziwiri zimakhala chifukwa cha mkangano.

Moyo wa osambira

Pali maziko ena, omwe ayenera kuganiziridwa, kotero kuti moyo wosasintha sudzapuma. Ndikofunika kuti nthawi zonse muzikumbukira kuti mnzanuyo ali pachiyambi, ndipo abwenzi atsopano ndi ochita nawo masewerawo. Popanda kusunga lamulo ili, khalidwe la masewera lotereli limatayika. Kuti mumvetse amene akuwombera, m'pofunika kukumbukira kuti maubwenzi oterewa amachokera pa malamulo enieni:

1. Musayese kulowa mu maubwenzi ena komanso ngakhale kuononga ukwati.
2. Ndikofunika kutsatira malamulo onse a misonkhano ndikudziwiratu pasadakhale kusintha kosatheka.
3. Mabanja othamanga sayenera kukakamiza wokondedwa wawo.
4. Msonkhano woyamba ndi msonkhano woyamba, ndipo ngati kuli kotheka, musaope kutsutsana ndi zikhalidwe.
5. Nthawi zonse nkofunika kuteteza kusadziwika kwa osambira popanda kuulula mayina awo.
6. Ndikofunika kutsatira malamulo a ukhondo ndi maonekedwe.
7. Othawa amatha kudzikhazikitsira okha malamulo awo a khalidwe, ndiko kuti, chovomerezeka ndi chosayenera. Mwachidziwitso, mndandanda wa malamulo ungasinthidwe.
8. Ndikofunika kuphunzira kulandira kukana ndikuona kuti ndikunyozedwa.

Swing - ubwino ndi chiwonongeko

Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti kugwirizana pakati pa kugonana ndi gawo lofunikira laukwati, popanda vuto limene limakhalapo. Mosiyanasiyana, maanja ena amasankha kukopa ena pa bedi lawo. Ambiri amadziwa zofunikirazo, mwa maganizo awo, kupindula kuti wokondedwa sangafune kusintha kumbali, pamene akupeza zonse pamodzi ndi theka lake lachiwiri.

Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti mwa kusinthanitsa abwenzi, kusinthana kumakhala pamapeto ndipo zotsatira za kuyesera kotero zikhoza kukhala ziwiri. Pachiyambi choyamba, ubalewo ukhoza kusintha kuti ukhale wabwino, ndipo panthawi yachiwiri, kumverera kumatayika ndipo mbaliyo iwiri. Zowopsya za kusambira kungakhalepo chifukwa chakuti nthawi zina chilakolako chofunafuna zosangalatsa chimapangitsa kuti pakhale kusintha kosasintha kwa zibwenzi, zomwe zingasokoneze maubwenzi a banja.

Kuthamanga ngati matenda a maganizo

Anthu onse angathe kugawidwa m'magulu atatu: omwe ali "pofuna" kugonana, omwe saloŵerera nawo komanso omwe amawona kuti ndi matenda a maganizo. Pali lingaliro lakuti okonda masewera samamva nsanje, chikondi ndi kudzikonda ndipo amangolakalaka ndi zokhumba zogonana. Okonda zosangalatsa zoterozo amadziona kuti ndi abwinobwino, amasonyeza kuti ali omasuka komanso alibe mantha.

Kodi tingakhale bwanji swinger?

Ngati munthu ali ndi chilakolako chogonana ndi munthu wina, choyamba muyenera kukambirana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu kuti muganizire za ubwino ndi zoipa, komanso kupewa zotsatira zoipa. Sikuti aliyense amatha kusunga mwachizolowezi momwe wokondedwa amagonana ndi mnzake. Mwachitsanzo, mungagwiritse ntchito nkhani za ena osambira, werengani mabuku ogwirizana ndi kuwona kanema. Kusuntha kwenikweni kumamanga ubale wawo pa maziko a ufulu wochitapo kanthu, wodzadalira ndi woona mtima.

Ngati banjali litasankha kuyesera, ndiye kofunikira kuyang'ana othandizana nawo. Izi zikhoza kuchitidwa ndi chithandizo cha intaneti zapadera kapena mutha kukhala membala wa magulu a swinger. Pambuyo pa gulu loyenerera, m'pofunika kuvomereza pamsonkhano momwe zingatheke kufotokozera zonse ndikudziwitsanso malamulo ogonana.