Akazi amagawanika kukhala omwe amafuna kudikira mpaka atagonjetsedwa, ndi omwe amapita pa chidziwitso okha. Koma pofuna kumugonjetsa mtsikanayo, ayenera kuyamba kukhumudwitsa mamuna wamwamuna, ndiko kuti, kupambana ndi chisomo chake.
Amati njira yopita kumtima wa munthu imakhala m'mimba mwake. Tidzayesa kulemba njira zingapo, ngati sangalowe mumkhitchini wanu.
Kuwona mtima
Kudziwa ndi woimira mwamuna kapena mkazi, mkazi aliyense amafuna kumudziwa, kufika pamtima mwa mwamuna, ngakhale munthu ameneyu samukonda. Izi - mpikisano wa nyama, umene umati pali chosowa, malinga ngati pali, ndiko.
Koma mwazidzidzidzi kuti zochitika zowopsya, mwinamwake zinachitika kuti mudali tsiku loyamba, osakondwera komanso osayesa kukondweretsa: mudanena zonse zomwe mumaganiza popanda kuyankhulana, khalani momasuka komanso mosatetezedwa. Pamapeto pake, popanda kufuna izo, iwe unapeza fungulo kwa mtima wa munthu aliyense - kuwona mtima , ndi kubwezeretsa, kuli ndi yako, wogonjetsedwa, womangirizidwa ndi kwanthawizonse yekha ndi mwamuna wako.
Amuna ndi anthu, ndipo anthu sazikonda pamene akuyesera kuti ayambe kuzungulira chala, ngakhale atachita izo mwaluso kwambiri. Choncho, choyamba, khalani odzipereka.
Mphamvu za akazi
Amuna ali olimba mwakuthupi, ndipo amayi ali olimba maganizo. Mzimu wathu ndi mphamvu yathu, ndipo tikhoza kusonyeza mzimu wathu wokongola popanda kulankhula za iwo madzulo onse (pazokambirana za amayi, onani pansipa). Lolani mtima wa munthu ukugwiritseni kumwetulira kokondweretsa komwe kumatsimikizira kuti ndinu munthu wabwino, wokhazikika komanso wokhutira.
Zindikirani: Amuna, ndithudi, amakonda akazi mobisa, koma kwa ubale wautali iwo amasankha wokhazikika, osakwatirana.
Zofooka za akazi
Inde, timakonda kukambirana ndi chibwenzi (abwenzi) pafoni ndipo tikhoza kuchita izi kwa maola ndi masiku kumapeto. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti ndinu wolankhulana bwino, kuti chinthu choyamba chowonetseredwa pozindikira munthu ndi luso lanu lolemba.
Amuna, ambiri mwa iwo, amadziwika okha. Ndipo popeza muli ndi chidwi pofunsa momwe mungagwire mtima wa munthu, konzekerani kuti mufunikira kumumwetulira ndi kumvetsera luso.
Musaiwale kuyenda m'njira: popanda kufulumira, dziwani kuti mukuchita nawo - ndi chatterbox kapena chete. Ndi makina ochezera, ndithudi, mvetserani, koma ndi chete-nenani.
Zindikirani: Amuna amavomereza kuti mkazi ayenera kuwawamvetsa bwino ndikuwakonda pang'ono. Mawu oti "kumvetsetsa" amatanthauza kumvetsetsa mwatcheru.
Mvomerezana kapena kutsutsana?
Kupitiliza mutu wa zokambirana ndi amuna, komanso, osaiwala momwe tingagonjetse mtima wa munthu, tidzatha kudziwa momwe tingamvere ndi momwe tingalankhulire.
Inde, nthawi ndi nthawi mumakhala chete ndikupereka zizindikiro za moyo. Amayi ambiri amabweretsa ungwiro kumvetsetsa zonse zomwe "akunena" - mawu ndi ziganizo zogwirizana - "inde", "ndithudi," "zowonadi," ndipo motalika kwambiri "amavomerezana nanu."
Koma ntchito yathu ndi kusonyeza kuti ndinu munthu wamphumphu, wokhala ndi umunthu
Amuna sakufuna kuvomerezana nawo. Amafuna kuti malingaliro awo azigawana, kapena kutsutsana kwathunthu, kutsutsidwa. Kukambirana pang'ono (popanda kutentha ndi chilakolako) kungakhale kofunika kwambiri poyambitsa kukambirana . Izi, zowonjezera, ziwonetsa kuti chiwerengero chanu cha nzeru chimakupatsani inu mawu ena.
Koma m'zinthu zambiri, zitatha zonse, ndi bwino kugawana mfundo ya mwamuna. Mwamuna akufuna kumverera "mutu" ngakhale pa tsiku loyamba, choncho, maganizo ake ayenera kuikidwa pamwamba pa zanu, mwa kuyankhula kwina, ayenera kukhala oyenera, kapena kulingalira kuti ali woyenera kwambiri.