Njira Yogwiritsira Ntchito Kusamala Kwaumunthu

Chikhumbo cholamulira anthu ena chimakhala mwa njira imodzi mwa aliyense wa ife. Ndi munthu amene akufuna kupereka malamulo, ndipo wina wokhudzidwa ndi kuthekera kwa kubisala chidziwitso cha munthu wina. Ena amakumbukira nthawi yomweyo anyamata omwe amawagwedeza ndi kuwagwedeza, omwe munthu amatsutsana kwathunthu ndi chifuniro cha wogwiritsira ntchito. Inu, ndithudi, mungaphunzire luso la kuponderezana , koma kugwiritsa ntchito, kuli ngati kutsegula bokosi lojambula ndi nkhwangwa. Ngati mukufuna kuti kusokoneza kukhalabe kosaoneka, muyenera kuchita zochepa kwambiri.

Njira Yogwiritsira Ntchito Kusamala Kwaumunthu

Choyamba, muyenera kukumbukira kuti anthu osapulumutsidwa salipo. Ndipo ngati munthu akunena kuti palibe njira yothetsera chidziwitso cha umunthu pa iye idzagwira ntchito, mukudziwa, munthu uyu ndi losavuta. Kawirikawiri anthu omwe ali ndi chikhulupiliro cholimba pa zikhulupiliro zirizonse amalephera kuganiza, ndipo amawatsimikizira kuti chilungamo chawo chimakhala chophweka. Kuonjezera apo, mutapeza mfundo yokhutira, simungayang'anenso malo ofooka a interlocutor, mukhoza kuyamba kugwira ntchitoyi.

Kuti athetse chidziwitso cha munthu wina, nkofunika kumvetsetsa zikhumbo zake zakuya, kuphunzira za zofooka zake. Gwirizanani, nthawi si nthawi yokwanira kuti mudziwe zambiri zokhudza chinthu chomwe chimakhudza chinthucho, nthawi zina nkofunika kuti muyambe kuyankhulana pamene mukuwona munthu woyamba kapena wachiwiri. Choncho, aliyense yemwe akufuna kutsogolere interlocutor, adzafunikanso kuchuluka. Ngati khalidweli sililipo, muyenera kulikulitsa mofanana ndi maphunziro a kukumbukira, popeza muyenera kukumbukira mfundo zochepetsetsa zolemba nokha za mayankho a anthu pamtundu winawake. Kumbukirani, muzochitika zomwezo anthu akhoza kuchita mosiyana, koma zoyamba zomwezo zidzakhala chimodzimodzi kwa iwo.

Pezani malo ofooka a munthu, yesetsani kusewera pa izo. Chabwino, kuti mupeze mfundo zokhudzidwa, muyenera kufunsa mafunso angapo ofotokozera. Phunzirani zomwe mungapemphe, Mukhoza kuyang'ana pang'ono chinthucho musanayambe kukambirana komanso pa moni. Pakali pano mukhoza kupanga chithunzi cha interlocutor, ali wamphamvu kapena amakonda kumvera, zinthu zake zomwe akufunikira, chikwati, zokondweretsa ndi zina zambiri. Ngati mukufuna kutsimikizira wina mwanjira ina, yesani kawiri kuti mumupatse malingaliro osatsutsika, omwe angavomereze nawo, nthawi yachitatu yomwe interlocutor adzakonzekeretsani kuti achite bwino.

Monga mukuonera, njira yothetsera chidziwitso cha munthu ndi yophweka, ngati mumadziwa "kuwona" anthu. Ndi chifukwa chake opambana ndi anthu omwe amaphunzira kuwerenga maganizo.