Kukhazikitsa ntchito ndi kudzizindikira sikungatheke popanda kukhala ndi makhalidwe ena. Munthu wothamangitsidwa mwamphamvu akhoza kukula panthawi yoyenera, nkofunika kuyesetsa kuti akhale mtsogoleri . Mmene mungakhazikitse luso la utsogoleri sikosavuta. Choyamba, ndikofunika kudziwa zomwe zikutanthauza mtsogoleri.
Utsogoleri wa umunthu
Malingaliro a akatswiri a maganizo, atsogoleri ndi ofunika, amalingaliro apadera omwe angathe kuthetsa mavuto, koma mwachangu, osati zochitika zokha. Iwo ali okonda omwe angathe kulimbikitsa ena. Iwo ali odekha ndi osonkhanitsidwa, osati osakondera. Panthawi zovuta, amatha kufufuza mosamalitsa mkhalidwe wa zinthu ndikuyendetsa utsogoleri wa "opulumutsa". Amatha kusintha mosavuta ndi kusintha mwamsanga kusintha kwa zinthu. Kudzilemekeza okha ndi ena, samalola kunyalanyaza maonekedwe, khalidwe lachiwerewere ndi kulankhulana.
Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale ndi makhalidwe abwino?
Kukula kwa utsogoleri ndi ndondomeko yozindikira komanso yowunika. Ntchito yokhazikika payekha ndilo chofunikira choyamba, kuphatikiza pa chikhumbo chokhala mtsogoleri. Komanso, muyenera kuphunzira:
- khalani ndi zolinga ndikuzikwaniritsa, muyenera kuyamba ndi ntchito zosavuta, pang'onopang'ono zovuta;
- Kukonzekera nokha kuti ukhale wopambana, pali punctures, koma izi ndi mavuto osakhalitsa omwe iwe
Mutha kupirira mwa kusonyeza chitsanzo kwa ena; - kuthana ndi mphamvu majeure - kuthekera mofulumira muzochitika zovuta ndizofunikira kwa mtsogoleri aliyense;
- kuti awonetse maonekedwe awo - anthu sadzapita kwa munthu wosavala bwino, wofooka, wosatetezeka;
- kusintha nthawi zonse - kusunga zochitika zatsopano, kukhala ndi luso latsopano, kusintha kwabwino mu ndondomeko ya akatswiri;
- kuyankhulana ndi anthu, kupeza "fungulo" kwa aliyense.