Pambuyo pake, funso la kudzipindulitsa limaperekedwa kwa munthu aliyense. Choyamba chogwidwa ndi cholimbikitsidwa mu ntchito yovutayi ndi, osamvetsetseka, kusakhutira ndi moyo wanu. Anthu ochepa amakhala okhutira ndi moyo wawo komanso malo awo mmalo mwawo, koma kuti asinthe chilengedwe chawo, malo awo ndi njira ya moyo, tiyenera kuyamba poyamba kusintha. Kukulitsa luso lawo, aliyense angathe kusintha moyo wake.
Zolinga zamakono, za uzimu ndi zamaganizo zimapereka njira yowonjezera yodzipangira yekha ndi kudzikuza, komabe, kwa munthu aliyense ndiye njira, kusokoneza maganizo ndi magawo a kukula kwaumwini. Kugwira ntchito pa zofooka zawo ndikugonjetsa zofooka zomwe zimapangitsa munthu kuti asapange kufunika kumafuna khama lalikulu, zolinga zazikulu ndikuchitapo kanthu nthawi zonse.
Wina akhoza kupereka zowonjezera zokhazokha pa momwe angayambire kudzikuza ndi kudzipindula, kupereka zitsanzo ndikuwonetsa machitidwe, koma chinthu chachikulu mu njirayi ndi chikhumbo cha munthu ndi ntchito yabwino ya munthuyo mwiniyo. Gawo loyamba pa njirayi ndilokhazikitsa ndi zolinga.
Njira zodzikuza komanso kudzikonda
Kudziwa nokha ngati munthu, kufufuza zolakwa zanu, zotsatirapo, zabwino ndi zoipa zimapatsa munthu mwayi womvetsa chifukwa chake sangakwanitse kukwaniritsa zolinga zake. Choyamba, muyenera kukumbukira kusintha kwa moyo wanu ndikulemba mndandanda:
- Zochita zomwe zimayambitsa kuwawa kapena manyazi.
- Zamwano zomwe zimaperekedwa kwa iwe ndi iwe.
- Mndandanda wa mavuto omwe amalepheretsa kukhala ndi moyo.
- Zolakwitsa zomwe zimalepheretsa kupambana.
Kudzikuza ndi kudzikuza kwa umunthu sikungatheke popanda kuzindikira zolakwitsa zawo, zolakwitsa ndi kulakwa, chifukwa ziri mwamtheradi mwa anthu onse. Musayang'ane omwe ali ndi zolakwa zawo. Ngakhalenso nkhani ya moyo wanu ikadakhala yosautsa komanso yosautsa, muyenera kuigwiritsa ntchito mosamala komanso ngati mwawerenga za munthu wina. Mukazindikira, mphindi ija ya moyo wanu, pamene simunayende pamsewu wanu, munaphwanya, mumatha kumvetsa, kuvomereza ndi kukhululukira nokha ndi ena. Kuyambira tsopano, kudzimvera chisoni, kudziimba mlandu ndi mkwiyo kumangokhala phunziro kwa inu.
Njira yopita patsogolo payekha ndi kudzikuza ili ndi magawo angapo ofunikira, kuyika mbali zonse za moyo:
- chitukuko chauzimu;
- chisokonezo;
- kuthekera kwa nzeru;
- thupi la thanzi;
- zopindula zapamwamba;
- chikhalidwe.
N'zosatheka kusintha mwa njira imodzi, chifukwa zonse zili mkati mwa munthu zimagwirizanitsa ndipo zimapanga dongosolo limodzi la munthu . Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti kukwaniritsa zolinga sizowonjezera, koma kugwira ntchito mwakhama. Yambani "diary yopambana" yanu ndipo lembani tsiku lililonse ngakhale zochepa zanu zopindula ndi mapulani a tsiku lotsatira.
Pakati pa mabuku osiyanasiyana pa chitukuko cha umunthu ndi luso, munthu akhoza kupeza mabuku odzipangira yekha ndi kupanga mndandanda wa olemba abwino kwambiri. Malingana ndi mayankho a owerenga ndi uphungu wa akatswiri a maganizo, mukhoza kubweretsa kagawo kakang'ono ka mabuku ofunikira omwe angakuthandizeni kumvetsa nokha ndikupeza njira yanu:
- Peel Norman "Mphamvu ya Kuganiza Zabwino".
- Steve Pavlina "Kukula Kwake kwa Anthu Ozindikira".
- John Kehoe "Chidziwitso chitha kuchita chirichonse."
- Dmitry Leushkin "Turbo-Ground Squirrel".
- Konstantin Sheremetyev "Ubongo wonse. Mmene mungayendetsere chikumbumtima chanu. "
- Adam Jackson "Zinsinsi za Chimwemwe".
- Victor Vasiliev "Buku Loyera".
- Eric Berne "Masewera omwe anthu amasewera."
- Dan Millman "Njira ya Msilikali Wamtendere".
- Kusokoneza Kwambiri "Mphamvu ya mphindi tsopano."