Kudzilemekeza ndiko, mwinamwake, chimodzi mwa makhalidwe ofunikira kwambiri m'moyo wa munthu. Zimayamba kukhazikitsidwa akadakali ana ndikupanga moyo wa munthu. Ndiyetu kwa iye kuti kupambana kwathu kumtundu, kukwaniritsa zofuna, nthawi zambiri zogwirizana ndi kusagwirizana popanda kukhazikitsidwa payekha nthawi zambiri zimatsimikiziridwa.
Kudzidalira ndiko kuyesa zoyenera ndi zofooka za munthu, zochita ndi zochita zake, kudzipangira nokha kufunika kwake pakati pa anthu. Kuti mudziwe molondola za umunthu, pali mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya kudzifufuza, yomwe idzakambidwe.
Kodi ndi kudzidalira kotani komwe kulipo?
- Kudzilemekeza / kulephera. Mwinamwake mitundu yofunika kwambiri yodzidalira yaumwini, chifukwa amadziwa momwe munthuyo alili owona ndi ofunika, zochita zake ndi makhalidwe ake.
- Wopamwamba / wokhazikika / wodzichepetsa . Pano mlingo wa kuwunika umatsimikiziridwa mwachindunji. Zikuwonekera pakupereka mopanda phindu kapena mosiyana - zosafunikira kukhala ndi zofunikira ndi zofooka. Mitundu yodzidalira kwambiri imathandiza kuti munthu akhale ndi chitukuko chochuluka, chifukwa chochepa chikhazikitso cha zochita zake, ndi kuwonetsetsa - zimasonyeza kuti zonse ziri bwino ndipo palibe chofunikira, makamaka sikofunika.
- Kudzidalira kokhazikika / kuyandama. Zimatsimikiziridwa ngati kudzidalira kwa munthu kumadalira momwe akumvera kapena kupambana pazochitika zinazake
(nthawi ya moyo). - Zomwe zimachitikira / zapadera / konkire-kudzifufuza. Imasonyeza malo omwe mawerengedwewa akugawidwa. Kodi munthuyo amadziyesa pazinthu zakuthupi kapena zamaganizo, m'madera ena: bizinesi, banja, moyo waumwini. Nthawi zina zimangodetsa nkhawa zina.
Zonsezi - mitundu yambiri ya kudzipenda mu psychology. Popeza malingaliro abwino ndi oyenera payekha amaikidwa mu ubwana, ndi bwino kumvetsera nthawiyi kwa ana - ndi kosavuta kudzipangitsa kukhala wodzidalira mokwanira ali wamng'ono komanso kumatanthauza zambiri.