"Iye anayang'ana pa ine soooo!" Inde, akuganiza chinthu chimodzi chokha! Zikuwoneka kuti amandikonda. " Tavomerezana, mawu ozoloŵera? Inde, aliyense wa ife kamodzi kamodzi m'moyo wanga anatchula mawu ofanana nawo pokambirana ndi abwenzi. Nthawi zina ife tonse timaganiza kuti mwamuna wamwamuna ndi woipa kwambiri, ndipo timayankhula nawo m'zinenero zosiyanasiyana. Koma zoona zake n'zakuti psychology ya anyamata ndi yosiyana kwambiri ndi mtsikana, ndipo maganizo awo sangagwirizane ndi lingaliro lazimayi. Chochita, ndi momwe mungapezere chinenero chofala ndi amuna athu? Tiyeni tiyesere kumvetsa.
Psycholoji ya anyamata - momwe mungamvetsere iwo?
Choyamba, timayamba kuganizira za ubale ndi chiyambi cha unyamata. Ndipo nthawi yonseyi, ndipo imatha zaka 14 mpaka 22, malingaliro a moyo amasintha pansi pa zovuta ndi zochitika. Anyamata onse ali ndi m'badwo uwu payekha. Komabe, pali zizoloŵezi zomwe zimakhudza aliyense.
Psycholoji ya achinyamata anyamata angagawidwe mu magawo angapo. Zonsezi zimadalira pa msinkhu komanso zosowa zomwe zikutsogolera pa nthawiyi, mosakayikira, zimakhudza maubwenzi ndi atsikana.
Psychology ya anyamata m'zaka 14. Nyengo ino ndi yovuta kwambiri kuyambitsa ubale uliwonse. Lingaliro la chikondi mwa anyamata likuphatikizidwa ndi kugonana kwachibadwa. Ndipo ngati mukuganiza kuti atsikana a msinkhu uno ali ndi chibwenzi cha ubale weniweni, nthawi zambiri chiyanjano chimathera ndi chikhulupiliro chachikulire chakuti "iwo amafunikira imodzi."
Psychology ya anyamata m'zaka 16-17. Nthawi iyi ndi yodabwitsa chifukwa ambiri a anyamatawo asankha kale maganizo awo ndi maganizo awo. Ino ndi nthawi ya chikondi choyera ndi chowala choyamba. Chiyanjano cha mnyamata kwa msinkhu uwu ndi chapamwamba kwambiri ndipo kuthetsa chiyanjano choyambitsidwa ndi mtsikana kungakhale vuto lalikulu la maganizo kwa mnyamata. Koma kachiwiri, musaiwale za mtundu wachiwiri wa amuna omwe akadali kufunafuna zabwino zawo. Mukawona kuti mnyamata wanu akulankhula ndi chibwenzi chanu ndi chidwi chomwe amakuchitirani, kapena nthawi zonse amadziwana nawo, ndibwino kuti muganizire, koma kodi mulibe chochita ndi mwamuna wamasiye?
Psychology ya anyamata muzaka 18-20. Mbadwo uno mpaka mofanana mmagulu awiriwa umagwirizanitsidwa ndi kusankha kwa ntchito ndi tanthauzo la malo a munthu m'moyo. Kawirikawiri umunthu wa anyamatawa umapangidwa kale, ndipo amalingalira momveka bwino tsogolo lawo. Pano mungathe kukumana ndi mitundu ingapo ya achinyamata:
- Mtundu woyamba wa chirichonse uli wokondweretsa kupatula atsikana. Monga lamulo, awa ndi anyamata, okhudzidwa ndi ntchito, magalimoto kapena abwenzi. Ngati mwakumana ndi mtundu uwu, ndiye mukudziwa kuti mwina "sanayende", kapena mosiyana, m'moyo wake panali kale maubwenzi omwe adawotcha;
- mtundu wachiwiri wa anyamata, mmalo mwake, umakonzedwa kwambiri pa munda wofooka. Anthu oterewa ali ndi makampani otseguka, ali ndi zilakolako zambiri, ndipo musatope skirti imodzi. Ndipo asungwanawo ali ndi amuna oterowo ndi opambana kwambiri. Komabe, nkofunika kukumbukira - psychology ya khalidwe la anyamata a mtundu uwu ndi kukhalapo kwa mulu wa zovuta ndi chikhumbo chodziyesa okha;
- Pafupi ndi mtundu wachitatu wa anyamata, kukhudzidwa kwachikazi kotchuka kuti "anthu onse abwino atha kale" amapangidwa. Iwo ndi anthu odziimira omwe amatenga ubale wawo mozama ndikulemekeza okondedwa awo. Chinsinsi chodziwika bwino kwa anyamatawa ndi chophweka - zambiri pano zimadalira mtsikana mwiniwake. Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani kuti mum'peze munthuyu? Tiyeni tizimvetsetsanso.
Psychology ya anyamata mu ubale
Popeza tikukamba za malingaliro aumunthu, tiyeni tisiyane nthano zonse mwachikondi zomwe zimapangidwa ndi malingaliro azimayi. Anyamata sangaganize monga momwe timaganizira. Ngati mukufuna kumvetsa mnyamata wanu, phunzirani kulingalira mosavuta. Kusinkhasinkha mavuto osiyanasiyana, kuwopsya kuchokera pachiyambi, kujambula zithunzi zoopsya za kusakhulupilira pamutu pambuyo pa munthu yemwe adabwera ku tawuniyo ali ndi ufulu wodalirika. Amuna amaganiza mosiyana. Iwo samasamala kuti mu cafesi wina ali ndi thunzi lofanana ndi lake, samakhala nalo chifukwa cha tsitsi lawo, manicure, khungu lakuda la nkhope komanso ngakhale zikwi zambiri zazing'ono zazing'ono. Ngati mukufuna munthu wabwino pafupi nanu, kumbukirani malamulo ochepa chabe:
- amuna ngati maso. Pazifukwa zina, anthu ambiri amaiwala za izi. Ziribe kanthu momwe dziko lanu lamakono liri lokongola, maonekedwe adzakhala ofunika kwambiri. Sikoyenera kukhala wokongola. Dziwani mmene mungadzisamalire nokha nokha bwino;
- m'madzi osamba adzakhalabe anyamata ang'onoang'ono, koma zidole zokha zakubadwa zidzakhala zolimba. Chifukwa chake, abwenzi, magalimoto ndi zofooka zina zamunthu nthawi zonse adzakhalapo pamoyo wanu ndi iye. Dziwani momwe mungamvetsere ndi kuvomereza;
- munthu ali wobadwa mwachigonjetso. Anyamatawa amaika chikhumbo cha utsogoleri.
Choncho musataye malo anu. Inu muyenera kukhala nthawizonse chinsinsi chomwe sichinafikepo. Musalole kuti mukhale osasangalatsa; - Amuna samakonda kufotokoza maganizo. Ndipo ngati malingaliro anu omveka amasonyeza ulemu, kapena musalembe mauthenga 200 pa tsiku, izi sizikutanthauza kuti iwo sakusangalatsani. Amuna okha amangosunga maganizo awo mu mitima yawo.
Psychology ya mnyamata wokondana si yovuta monga ikuwonekera poyamba. Ngati mwapatsidwa maluwa ndikukhala ndi zizindikiro, ndiye kuti mumakonda, ndipo mudzayesa kupambana. Kusiyanitsa kuno ndikosowa kwambiri. Ngati mnyamatayu akukufunirani, adzachita zonse kuti atseke. Ndipo ntchito yanu ndikutsimikiza kuti chidwi chake mwa inu sichitha. Osapanga zolakwika, kumudalira, kumudziwitsa kuti ndi wofunika komanso wokondedwa. Ndiyeno moyo wanu udzadzazidwa ndi chimwemwe chogwirizana ndi mgwirizano.