Mwinamwake, pafupifupi mkazi aliyense mu moyo wake anayamba kuganiza kuti zingakhale zabwino kumva kwa mphindi maganizo a amuna. Pambuyo pake, akazi ndi amuna, ngati kuti ochokera ku mapulaneti osiyanasiyana, amakhala ndi maganizo osiyana ndi maganizo ndi zinthu zomwezo. Gwirizanani kuti ndikufuna kudziwa zomwe amuna amaganiza za amai , iwo amati, ndi zomwe amalingaliro athu, okongola. Pambuyo pake, mikangano zambiri pakati pa awiri ndi awiri zimachitika, poyambirira, chifukwa cha malingaliro a mmodzi wa zibwenzi.
Koma, molingana ndi chiwerengero, amuna sizonong'onong'ono kusiyana ndi akazi.
Tiyeni tipeze tsatanetsatane zomwe zidafotokozedwa ndi amuna omwe sali pabanja komanso okwatirana za amai.
Poyambirira, panthawi yomwe intaneti imakhala yodzaza ndi maofesi ambiri ndi malo, komwe aliyense angapeze zomwe anthu amaganiza za wina kapena chinachake.
Ndiyetu ndikuyenera kuzindikira kuti amuna samawona kuti ndi koyenera kukambirana maonekedwe a akazi. Iwo, panjira, adakali ndi magalamu angapo, kaya amajambula kapena amawaza mizu. Pokhapokha, ngati chinachake chikukhumudwitsa kwambiri kapena chimawakondweretsa mwa mkazi, sangalekerere kupereka gawo lawo laufulu pa zokambiranazi.
Pa mndandanda wa zinthu zomwe zimakhumudwitsa kwambiri ndipo nthawi zina zosamvetsetseka kwa amuna, izi ndizo zokambirana za amayi popanda zopindulitsa komanso popanda kupuma. Tsoka ilo, si amuna onse omwe amazindikira kuti kwa akazi ena kukambirana uku sikutaya nthawi, koma njira yothetsera maganizo.
Mndandanda womwewo ukhoza kuwonjezeredwa ndi mfundo yakuti ndi chiwonongeko oimira amphamvu ogonana amalankhula za iwo omwe ali okhudzidwa kwambiri ndi mawonekedwe awo, akuiwala kuti pali chisokonezo kukhitchini, ndipo sheti ya munthu ikuyembekezera sabata kuti iisambe. Musaiwale kuti mafashoni akumanga chilichonse chomwe chingamangidwe, amawononga amunawo. Chikhalidwe cha akazi monga chofunika, ndipo chidzayamikiridwa pakati pa anthu.
Amuna amati chiyani za okonda?
Amuna samafalitsa zambiri za moyo wawo wachiwiri. Nthawi zina, poopa kuvomereza kwaokha, amapita m'manja mwa mkazi wina, amangokhalira kuchita zachibadwa. Amuna nthawi zina ndi mantha amaganiza kuti akusocheretsa, nkokayikitsa kuti munthu woteroyo angafune kusiya banja lake komanso kukhala ndi ana ndi ambuye.
Amuna amati chiyani za amayi olemera?
Chodabwitsa kwambiri, ngakhale kuti amayi ambiri akulota m'mimba yanyonga, amuna amakhala openga za chiberekero chaching'ono. Amuna amalankhula za akazi athunthu monga amayi omwe ali ndi mabere amtengo wapatali, omwe amamverera ngati kumbuyo kwa khoma lamwala. Ndikoyenera kudziwa kuti anthu amaganiza kuti amayiwa ali okonzekera bwino.
Inde, ndizoopsa kwambiri kuti muwerenge malingaliro a abambo okhudza akazi, koma kuti mudziwe zoona zokhudzana ndi maganizo a amuna , sizingakhale zopanda pake ngati mutapeza mayankho a mafunso okondweretsa ochokera kwa munthu wodziwa bwino.