Ambiri omwe amaimira zachiwerewere ndi otsimikiza kuti ngati simukufunidwa - zikutanthauza kuti pali chinachake cholakwika ndi inu. Zoonadi, mawu awa ali owonjezera, ndipo kuchokera apa pakubwera kutanthauzira kwakukulu kwa chikhalidwe chenicheni cha chiwerewere. Pambuyo pake, izi sizongokhala zokhazokha zokhazokha, koma mphamvu yodzigonjetsera kuchokera kufunikira - mbali zamagulu. Ndipo chinsinsi chachikulu cha chiwerewere ndi kudziwa momwe mungachitire.
Kodi zinsinsi za chiwerewere ndi ziti?
Malingana ndi akatswiri, lingaliro la "kugonana kwa akazi" limaphatikizapo zigawo zingapo:
- Ukazi ndi wamwamuna, "asexual", mkazi sangayambitse chilakolako, choncho, sungaganizedwe kugonana.
- Kudzidalira - zovuta, zongoganizira zolakwa zawo zokha, amayi sangathe kugonana.
- Chinsinsi chamkati ndi mtundu wina wosadziwiratu; mwinamwake kusasamala, kapena, mosiyana, osatheka; kuphatikiza mosayembekezereka kwa makhalidwe ena kapena zokonda, zomwezo ndizo zonse zomwe zimachotsedwa pamaganizo, malingaliro achikhalidwe, chinachake chimene sichiyembekezeredwa.
Zinsinsi za kugonana kwa amayi zimakhudzanso chikhalidwe chakuya chauzimu. Izi zatchulidwa, mwachitsanzo, mu chiphunzitso chodziwika bwino chotchedwa Chinese monga Taoism.
Zinsinsi za Taoist zogonana
Malingana ndi lingaliro la filosofi iyi, mkazi ndiye woyang'anira mphamvu zopatulika, zomwe amagawana naye ndi mwamuna wake. Ndipo kuti asatayike mphamvu zake, koma kuti amuonjezere, ayenera kumvetsetsa zinsinsi za chiwerewere. Choyamba, samalirani thanzi lanu; Kachiwiri, musaiwale za kudzikonda; lachitatu, kuti akondwere tsiku lililonse; muchinayi, kuti mupeze kukongola mu chirichonse. Ndifunikanso kuphunzira thupi lanu ndi malire a malingaliro ake kuti mutha kugwiritsa ntchito molondola.
Chinsinsi cha Geisha Zogonana
Chitsanzo cha chidwi cha akazi padziko lonse lapansi ndi "ansembe achikondi" a ku Japan a geisha. Ndipo amakhalanso ndi zinsinsi zawo za kugonana. Choyamba, kuphunzitsidwa - mkazi weniweni, yemwe amadziwa tanthauzo la chikondi chachithupithupi, ukhoza kukhala njira yophunzitsira nthawi yaitali. Chachiwiri, malingaliro olemera amathandizanso kwambiri kwa amayi. Ndicho chifukwa chake zida zofunikira zimayenera kudziwa zinenero zingapo, zojambula zamakono, ndi zina zotero. Chachitatu, musawope kukhala achibadwa, musabisire kugonana kwanu, koma muzichita bwino komanso mwaulemu.