Lingaliro la kudzikonda limatanthawuza mfundo yapadera ya makhalidwe yomwe imapangitsa anthu kudzikonda kuthandiza ena, ndipo nthawi zambiri amapereka zofuna zawo, zokhumba zawo ndi zosowa zawo. Auguste Comte, katswiri wafilosofi wa ku France amene adapanga tanthauzo limeneli, amakhulupirira kuti chigamulo chachikulu cha mawu akuti "kukhala moyo kwa ena".
Vuto la kudzikonda
Kawirikawiri munthu amatha kumva kutsutsidwa kwa kudzikonda monga kukana kwambiri zofuna zake, ndipo egoism ndipamwamba kwambiri. Komabe, zifukwa ziwirizi zimasokonezeka nthawi zambiri, m'malo mwa ena, popeza kuti amakhulupirira kuti amachita zokha pokhapokha ngati akufuna kuthandiza ena, ndipo ndithudi angathe kutsata phindu laumwini, lomwe limatsutsana ndi lingaliro la kudzikonda.
Egoism ndi kudzikonda m'maganizo nthawi zambiri zimaphatikizidwa ndi lingaliro lina - kudzikonda. Kukhala wokhutira ndi moyo wokhutira ndizokhutira zokonda za iwe mwini, osati chifukwa cha ndalama za anthu ena, zomwe zimaonedwa kuti ndizo zomveka bwino, zolondola ndi zathanzi, pamene kudzikonda kumatsutsidwa chifukwa chosanyalanyaza zikhalidwe za anthu kuti zigwirizane ndi zofuna zawo.
Komabe, palinso mavuto ochulukirapo, chifukwa anthu omwe ali ndi makhalidwe osayenera amatha kukhala operewera. Pakhoza kukhala zambiri, koma chimodzi mwa zofunika kwambiri ndizofunika kukhala munthu wina wofunikira, zomwe zimachitika motere.
Kumbali ina, kudzikonda kumathandiza ena, kuchoka pa zolinga za uzimu ndi zofuna za munthu, ndiko kuti, kuchita mwaluso komwe kumathandiza munthu kuti akwaniritse zosowa zake pothandiza ena.
Zitsanzo za kudzikonda
N'zotheka kuyang'ana chodabwitsa ichi kuchokera ku malingaliro osiyana, ndipo ndi zophweka kuchita izi mwa kulingalira zitsanzo za kudzikonda.
- Mkazi amasamalira mwamuna wake ndi ana, amathandiza anthu oyandikana naye,
amapereka zopereka kwa osauka, koma nthawi yomweyo sapeza nthawi yake, zofuna zake, zokondweretsa ndi maonekedwe. - Mkazi wa chidakwa woledzeretsa yemwe amalekerera mwamuna woledzera, amayesa kumuthandiza mwanjira inayake, kapena mwa kudzichepetsa kumangomusamala yekha, kudziiwala za iyemwini.
Mu zitsanzo ziwiri izi, khalidwe lodzikonda limagwirizana ndi kuzindikira kwa kusowa kwa zosoŵa, zomwe nthawi zambiri munthu samadzivomereza yekha. Komabe, palinso zitsanzo zina, zomwe aliyense anganene, palibe phindu kwa munthuyo mwiniyo. Mwachitsanzo, msirikali amene amaphimba thupi lake ndi mgodi kuti anzakewo akhoze kudutsa. Chotsatira chake, msilikali amwalira, atachita nawo chidwi, ndikuthandizira abambo ake kuti apambane - ndipo izi ndi zenizeni zenizeni, zomwe palibe gawo la phindu lake.