Mwina mungakumbukire izi pamene munadzifunsa nokha kuti: "Ndikhoza!" Ndipo mwakwanitsa kuthana ndi vuto lomwe lafika patsogolo panu. Ichi chinali chifukwa cha zomwe mumakhulupirira, nokha mungathe kunena, koma, kuti zimagwira ntchito, osakayika konse. Tsoka ilo, anthu kawirikawiri, ngakhale osadziŵa, ndi malingaliro awo ndi mawu awo akukopa zosafunikira. Pambuyo pa aliyense wa ife mphindi iliyonse pali kusankha: kulenga kapena kuwononga.
Zovomerezeka ndizolemba zabwino. Amaika malingaliro athu kuti adzikwaniritse zofuna zawo ndipo ayenera kutsimikizira zochitika kapena zochitika zomwe mukufuna kuti mudzicheke nokha monga momwe zakhalira kale. Mukhoza kulemba zomwe mumalemba pa mutu. Komabe, muyenera kuganizira kuti chilakolako chanu sichiyenera kuvulaza anthu ena.
Lamulo lokhazikitsa zovomerezeka
Pofuna kuti malingaliro anu akhale zinthu zakuthupi ndikofunika kuti muwapange bwino. Pali malamulo angapo ochitira izi:
- Zitsimikizo zikhale zabwino.
- Simungagwiritse ntchito tinthu "NOT".
- Muzitsimikizo zoyenera, mawuwa akulembedwa ngati kuti malotowo anali atakwaniritsidwa kale.
Kawirikawiri anthu amapanga zolakwa zazikulu polemba mawu awo ndipo samakhala ndi zotsatirapo. Nawa ena mwa iwo:
- Kugwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "Ndikhoza." Mwachitsanzo, "Ndikhoza kulandira ndalama."
- Osati nthawi zonse kugwira ntchito ndi mawu.
- Kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yamtsogolo.
- Gwiritsani ntchito mawu omwe amakupangitsani kutsutsa mkati.
- Mawu achitsulo.
Yesetsani kuti mawu ayambe kugwira ntchito mosamala. Pamene mawuwo akubwerezedwa, ndibwino kuti achite. Kubwereza kubwereza zoipa.
Kaŵirikaŵiri kachitidwe kaŵirikaŵiri kamasokonezedwa ndi ulesi. Tsiku lina munthu amakumbukira za mawu, otsatira - amaiwala, ndiyeno, samapeza nthawi yawo. Pofuna kupewa izi, yesani malingaliro anu. Werengani zitsanzo za zovomerezeka ndikulembera nokha, chifukwa cha zigawo zazikulu za moyo waumunthu: thanzi, maganizo, ntchito, ndalama ndi kulankhulana.
Zitsanzo za maumboni tsiku lililonse
Ngati simungathe kupanga malingaliro anu enieni nokha, ndiye kuti mungagwiritse ntchito makachisi okonzedwa bwino.
Zitsimikizo pa umoyo:
- Ndimakhulupirira kuti mphamvu zamtendere ndi zopambana ziri nane nthawi zonse;
- Ndili wathanzi;
- Thupi langa limandilimbikitsa kuti ndizigwira ntchito ndekha;
- Ndimasamala ndekha.
Zitsimikizo za tsiku lililonse:
- kupambana kuli nthawizonse ndi ine;
- Ndili ndi mphamvu zopanda malire ndi mwayi;
- Ndikulitsa luso langa;
- Chilengedwe chimandiululira ine magwero a chidziwitso.
Zitsimikizo zabwino:
- Ine ndikuwoneka wamkulu;
- ndalama zanga zikukwera nthawi zonse;
- Ndikunyadira ndekha;
- mwamuna wanga ndi wabwino kwambiri.
Zitsimikizo za mwayi:
- Ine ndikugawana ndi zakale popanda kudandaula;
- Ndine woyenera kuwonjezera malipiro;
- Ine ndimapeza bwino kwambiri;
- Ndimakonda komanso kulemekeza makolo anga.
Zitsimikizo za chikondi:
- Ndiyamikira ndekha;
- Ndimalola ena kudzikonda okha;
- Mtima wanga watsegulira chikondi;
- Ndikupereka chikondi, kutentha, chimwemwe kwa ena.
Pangani kusintha kwanu pamoyo wanu. Kugwiritsa ntchito njira zophweka izi, ndondomeko yopezera mapindu a moyo idzachitidwa mosavuta, ndipo posachedwa muwona zamasintha.
Njira zogwira mtima kwambiri zogwiritsa ntchito zovomerezeka
- Lembani mawu olembedwa pa pepala, ayenera kuwonetseredwa kutali ndi mamita awiri. Ndikofunika kupanga makope awiri.
- Mmodzi wa mapepalawo amayikidwa m'chipinda chogona kumene maso anu amasiya mwamsanga atadzuka. Mukatha kugona, maganizo osamvetsetseka akukonzekera kuti mudziwe zambiri, mosasamala kanthu kuti mumadziwa mawu olembedwa. Poyang'ana pa iwo, mumakonza chidziwitso kuti zinthu ziziwayendera bwino tsiku lonse.
- Tsamba lina lokhala ndi zitsimikizo limayikidwa khitchini moyang'anizana ndi tebulo kotero kuti panthawi ya chakudya mumawona zolembedwa
kuvomereza. Pamene akhala pa tebulo ayenera kukhala pafupi ndi maso. Zomwe mukudya zimakhudza kwambiri munthu. Chodabwitsa ichi chinkazindikiridwa ndi Achikale akale. Ankayika kwambiri kufunika kwa chakudya, kuphatikizapo nyimbo zoimbira panthawiyo, ndipo ankayang'ana zizindikiro zomwe zinakopa mwayi.
Ngati patapita nthawi mukufuna kusintha malingaliro anu abwino, ndiye kuti mumangotenga mapepalawo. Njirayi idzapindula mosavuta zotsatira zofunidwa m'dera lililonse la moyo wanu.