Kusadziletsa

Kuti mukwaniritse zolinga zomwe mwakhazikitsa, muyenera kudzidalira nokha ndi maluso anu, tsimikizirani; koma musasokoneze cholinga ndi chouma. Popanda makhalidwe otere, n'zovuta kukwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna. Khama lonse ndi khama lidzakhala chabe ngati, pambuyo pa kulephera kulikonse, tisiye. Choncho, chidaliro ndi kutsimikiza ndizofunikira kuti tikwaniritse ndi kusintha zotsatira. Koma apa chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhala ndi lingaliro lalingaliro ndi lingaliro. Ndipotu, kudalira kwambiri kungathe kuwononga, chifukwa zingathe kukhala zotsutsa kwambiri.

Kusamvera ndi kovuta

Poyankhulana ndi mgwirizano ndi anthu, ndikofunikira kuti mupeze zosokoneza. Ndipo kukhalapo ndi kuwonetseredwa mu chikhalidwe chaukali ndi chifukwa cha mkangano. Kwenikweni, anthu opanduka ali ndi khalidwe lovuta. Iwo safuna kupita patsogolo, koma imani molimba, osakondera kumvetsera mfundo ina. Izi zimatsatiridwa ndi whims ndi kuuma. Anthu akuluakuluwa sakhala nawo okha, koma mosiyana ndi zimenezo, pewani. Izi zingawononge komanso kuwononga mbiri ya munthu wamkulu. Ndiye funso lolondola limabuka: "Mmene mungagwirire ndi kuumitsa"?

Kudziletsa ndi maganizo

Kuti athetse vuto lililonse muyenera kudziwa chifukwa chake. Kwenikweni, anthu "osakondwa kwamuyaya" ali choncho chifukwa chokayikira kuvomereza ndi lingaliro losiyana ndi lawo. Munthu samadziwa njira zothetsera vutoli. Amangoima pamalo ake enieni ndipo saona zomwe zingatheke. Chifukwa chake, zifukwa zomwe zimayambitsa nkhanza, kuuma:

• kudzidalira kwambiri. Pamene anu "I" amaposa china chirichonse.
• chosiyana kwambiri ndi chifukwa chapitalo - chilakolako chodziimira. Anthu osatetezeka amafuna kuchita izi popanda ena. Anthu ena amachipeza. Mwachitsanzo, ndi kuuma kwa munthu mmodzi nthawi yaitali, anthu omwe amamuzungulira amavomereza naye. Munthu wamakani akwaniritsa zolinga zake, kupeza phindu ndi kupambana.
• "Kupusa ndi wamba." Nthawi zina, anthu omwe ali ndi chidziwitso chochepa, amakhala ndi maganizo ochepa ndipo samatha kumvetsera ena, zindikirani zambiri zomwe mungasankhe. Amakhutira ndi malingaliro awo ndipo amawuteteza molimba mtima.
• akufunikira chidwi. Kaŵirikaŵiri zimachitika osati mu ubwana. Mchitidwe umenewu ukhoza kuwonetsedwa mu ntchito, pamene wogwira ntchito mwakachetechete akuyamba kulamula malamulo ake mwamphamvu.

Pali mndandanda wa masewero olimbitsa thupi, momwe mungachotsere kuuma:

1. Dzidziike nokha pamalo a munthu amene munatsutsana naye. Mwina, dziwani nokha zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa zomwe simunadziwonepo kale.
2. Khalani ndi chidwi ndi maganizo a anthu ena. Ndiye mudzapeza njira ina.
3. Pitani kuyanjanitsa. Mukachita izi kamodzi, zidzakhala zosavuta kuti muzichita zina.
4. Yesani kumvetsa munthu wina.
5. Ganizirani chifukwa chake izi ndi zomwe bwenzi lanu akunena. Mwinamwake kuli kosavuta kwenikweni, kopindulitsa ndi kopindulitsa?
6. Yang'anani pa funsolo kuchokera kumbali zosiyanasiyana. Ndipo yankho la vutoli ndi losiyana.
7. Khalani ndi cholinga.
8. Osamatsogoleredwa ndi mtima, koma chifukwa.
9. Musaganize kuti ngati mutasintha maganizo anu pazinthu zina, ndiye kuti mutaya. Ayi, ayi! Izi zikutanthauza kuti mukhale ochenjera, kukula ndi kukula. Musamachite manyazi.
10. Kumbukirani, kuvomereza zolakwa zanu sizochititsa manyazi.

Mmene mungagonjetse ndikugonjetsa makani?

Ngati woyimilira wanu akuwonetseratu kuti akupitirizabe ndikutsutsana, ndiye kuti:

1. Khalani chete! Izi ndi zofunika kwambiri.
2. Ganizirani, mwinamwake mukukangana pa chinthu chomwecho?
3. Musayankhe kwa wachiwawa. Musamutsatire munthu wouma.
4. Muuzeni kuti mumva maganizo ake. Mufunseni kuti azindikire. Mwinamwake cholinga chofufuza chidzamukakamiza kuti ayang'ane mkhalidwewo kuchokera kumbali inayo.