Aliyense, mosasamala kanthu za chikhalidwe ndi msinkhu, akufuna kuti azikondedwa. Kufunika kwa kugwirizana kumadziwika ndi msinkhu.
Kusungulumwa ndi chinthu chomwe timayesetsa kupewa. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kuti ndi ndani yemwe timamukonda - woimira zosiyana kapena za mwamuna wake. Chikondi chosakanikirana ndi mutu wa zokambirana za lero.
Zifukwa za chikondi cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha
Chiyanjano pakati pa oimira amuna kapena akazi okhaokha nthawizonse wakhala, nthawi zonse. Zaka mazana apitayi, mawonetseredwe amenewa anali obisika kwa anthu onse. Koma tsopano kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi anthu ochepa omwe amadabwa. Kuweruza munthu chifukwa cha "chodziwika" chake, chabwino, n'chachilendo komanso chopusa. Aliyense amakhala monga akufunira. Lemekezani anthu, zirizonse zomwe ali, ndi ntchito yathu. Chifukwa ngati sitimalemekeza, n'chifukwa chiyani ena angatichitire mosiyana?
Nchifukwa chiyani munthu sakufuna kumanga maubwenzi ndi anyamata komanso zomwe amapeza mu chikondi chofanana?
- kukhumudwa. Ubale wopanda phindu umayambitsa lingaliro la kusintha kwa chikhalidwe, ngakhale kutentha kumveka. Palibe kamodzi kamodzi kamene kamakumana ndi zovuta polankhulana ndi anyamata, kwa wina nkovuta kupeza mphamvu ndi chikhumbo kubwereza chirichonse kuyambira pachiyambi;
- kumvetsa. Mzimayi amatha kumvetsa mkazi, ndipo mwamuna amadziwa bwino maganizo a amuna. Ngati wina anatha kupeza "mzimu wachibale", kodi pali kusiyana kotani - mwamuna kapena mkazi ?;
- chidwi. Kugonana mu chikondi chofanana, pazifukwa zomveka, kumasiyana ndi ubale wapamtima. Munthuyo amasankha kufikitsa funso lachikondi m'njira yosasinthika, kuti asinthe;
- zovuta za maganizo, nkhawa, kupanikizika - zonsezi zingayambitse "zozizwitsa" zazing'ono za malingaliro.
Psycholoji ya chikondi cha kugonana ndi chilakolako chagona pakati pa chikhumbo chofuna kupeza wina yemwe amatha kumvetsa, kuvomereza munthu momwe alili, kuzungulira ndi chikondi chenicheni ndi chisamaliro.
Chikondi cha akazi chosakanikirana
Chikondi pakati pa atsikana aang'ono, kawirikawiri msinkhu, chiyenera chifukwa cha mapeto opangidwa ndi kugonana. Pa nthawi ya kutha msinkhu, psyche ya atsikana ndi yosakhazikika kwambiri, motero mitundu yosiyana ya kugonana, kuphatikizapo chikondi chomwecho.
Chikondi chofanana pakati pa amai, achikulire, ndicho chifukwa cha kukopa kwa theka / lopanda mphamvu. Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji? Chowonadi ndi chakuti mwamuna weniweni ayenera kuyang'ana. Wamphamvu, wanzeru, wodalirika ndi womvera - yang'anani pa tsiku ndi moto, monga akunena. Oimira akazi amakono nthawi zambiri amakhala amphamvu, odziimira okha ndi olemera. Nthawi zina mayi akhoza kukhala ndi chilakolako chosamalira ndi kukonda mkazi wofatsa, wachikondi komanso wofooka. Wotsirizira, nayenso, akufunafuna theka lolimba, amafunikira chitetezo. Ngati munthu sangakwanitse, ndiye kuti palibe chosankha.
Chikondi chachimuna cha amuna
Chikondi cha anthu kwa wina ndi mzake chimachokera kufooka kwa ambiri a iwo. Ngati m "mzake wogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, mkazi" wathyoledwa "ndi munthu ndipo amawopsya, ndiye kuti amasintha malo. Kutsilizitsa: Azimayi, samalirani amuna awo okondedwa, musamawapange iwo ngati inu nokha.
The physiology of men limafotokoza kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Popeza kuti mfundo zambiri zowopsya, malo okondweretsa amatha kugonana ndi amuna amodzi, choncho chikoka cha kugonana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi. Mwinanso ubale umenewu udzamangidwira pokhapokha pa kugonana. N'zosadabwitsa kuti munthu akhoza kukhala banja lachitsanzo chabwino,
Maganizo aumwini
Kukonda munthu wina (kutanthauza, munthu) ndi luso lapamwamba komanso lofunika kwambiri. Komabe, ndi bwino kukumbukira kuti mu mgwirizano wa amuna ndi akazi ndi ana obadwa. Simungathe kutsutsana ndi chilengedwe. Mwana sayenera kukhala ndi atate awiri kapena amayi awiri. Choncho, vuto la kukhazikitsidwa kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha liyenera kukanidwa mwachindunji. Kukonda - chonde, koma kuti uphunzitse mtundu wako, kuvulaza ana - Mulungu aletse.