Makhalidwe a munthu aliyense ali ndi maonekedwe ambiri ndipo aliyense wa ife ali ndi makhalidwe apadera, ndipo ndizotani, tidzakambirana mwatsatanetsatane.
Kodi makhalidwe a munthu ndi ati?
Choyamba, kuti aphunzire makhalidwe awo , ndikofunikira kufufuza mkhalidwe wawo wonse (izi zimaphatikizapo kudzidalira, kudzidzudzula), ndi malingaliro kwa ena (ichi ndi nkhanza kapena chikondi, kusayanjana - kukoma mtima, kukhudzidwa, chifundo, kulemekeza ndi ndi zina zotero), kuphunzitsa ntchito, malonda (ulesi, molondola, mwakhama kapena untidiness).
Kale kuyambira kubadwa, munthuyo amawonetsera zikuluzikulu za khalidwe lake komanso m'moyo wa aliyense wa ife amene ali ndi makhalidwe ake. Malingana ndi mtundu wa chikhalidwe (choleric, sanguine, phlegmatic, melancholic) chimayendera, makhalidwe oterewa amatchulidwa. Choncho, anthu ochita masewera olimbitsa thupi ali ophweka kwambiri kuti akhale okonzeka, iwo sali osiyana ndi lingaliro la chilango, kusungunula, ndiyeno - mtundu, chifundo, ndi magazi, choleric chidzabwera wokonza bwino kwambiri. Mosasamala kanthu za khalidwe, munthu akhoza kukhala ndi makhalidwe ofunikira.
Kodi makhalidwe abwino ndi ati?
Kodi makhalidwe abwino ndi oipa ndi otani, sichidalira zokhazokha, makhalidwe abwino, komanso maulendo olankhulana ndi munthu, kulera kwake. Kotero, iwo ali:
- kukoma;
- chifundo;
- kuthetsa;
- chipiriro;
- kudzidalira;
- chiyembekezo;
- kudzipereka;
- masalinity;
- bata;
- kukhulupirika;
- chisamaliro;
- kusagwirizana;
- Kunyada (osati kusokonezeka ndi kunyada).
Kodi ndi makhalidwe otani a khalidweli?
Ngakhale m'nthaŵi zakale, makhalidwe oipa adatchedwa "dragons akukhala mwa munthu aliyense". Kotero, kwa iwo kunyamula:
- chikondi;
- kunyada;
- kudzidalira;
- kudzikonda;
- nsanje;
- nsanje;
- kukwiya;
- mkwiyo;
- chowononga;
- kutsimikizira.